Last winter, now 17-year-old Isobel Chi found herself on Washington鈥檚 Sasse Mountain with a group of fellow high schoolers and a handful of adult leaders. The early February hike was a regular outing for the Seattle-based Mountaineers 国产吃瓜黑料 Club (or MAC, pronounced as one word), a youth program designed to provide outdoor recreation opportunities for 14- to 18-year-old Seattleites. Every teen on the hike had practiced using traction devices and ice axes, and they鈥檇 put their skills to the test on a snowy ridgeline traverse between Sasse and Howson Peak. Off-trail, traveling 鈥渟traight uphill,鈥� Chi felt herself approaching her limit. Then, nearing the top, the group . To Chi, it looked unstable, and alarm bells went off in her head. Most of the group seemed unconcerned, but sharing Chi鈥檚 apprehension, one of the student leaders spoke up.

鈥淪he said, 鈥業 don鈥檛 think this is the best idea, I don鈥檛 feel safe doing this. And then we turned around and I thought that was really impressive,鈥� says Chi.

Chi learned a few important lessons that day about trusting her intuition, speaking up in a group setting, and that it鈥檚 OK to turn around short of an objective. Even for adult adventurers, that type of knowledge is often hard-won over the course of many seasons鈥攁nd sometimes close calls鈥攊n the mountains. But Chi and her peers in MAC are getting a head start.

Today, Chi, who has been involved with MAC since she was in eighth grade, is herself one of six student leaders elected by their peers. The program consists of monthly meetings and a jam-packed calendar of weekly trips and workshops, including hiking and backpacking, rock climbing and rope skills, wilderness first aid, navigation, skiing, and technical mountaineering including snow and glacier travel skills.

MAC鈥檚 youth leaders are supported by adult volunteers and a small staff; but it鈥檚 the kids who run pre-trip meetings, organize groups of students, help teach skills, cook meals, and facilitate in-the-field experiences. While some of the student participants have grown up going outside with their families, for many of them, MAC is a first foray into the outdoors.

Caroline Sherley, 18, serves alongside Chi on MAC鈥檚 leadership team to help organize trips and monthly meetings, teach skills, and wrangle gear and food for outings.

鈥淭he program is about learning climbing and outdoor stuff, of course, but it鈥檚 also kind of taking you through a complete progression of 鈥業鈥檓 learning this skill, I鈥檓 relearning it and refining it, and then I鈥檓 teaching it,鈥欌�� said Sherley. 鈥淚t鈥檚 nice for learning skills about being outdoors, it鈥檚 nice for getting off your phone, it鈥檚 nice for being outside with great people, and it鈥檚 also nice for building your confidence.鈥�

MAC鈥檚 program calendar reads like any adult : Mt. Shuksan, Mt. Baker, Eldorado, Forbidden Peak, a 10-day excursion to Squamish, British Columbia, and more. While youth programs across the country get kids into nature, MAC is unique: The curriculum provides teens with big-mountain skills like crevasse rescue and snow camping, and, more importantly, hands them the reins as often as possible.

鈥淥ne of the biggest things that I think that leadership really does is they really set , both on trips and also just through intention at leadership meetings,鈥� says Emile Blouin, a volunteer for MAC who has spent a decade working with kids and teens as a teacher and tutor. 鈥淭here鈥檚 been really a push to create more space for the youth leadership to really be the ones that are driving everything.鈥�

While summiting some of the nation鈥檚 most challenging and scenic peaks is enough to incite jealousy in any adult hiker, it鈥檚 the soft skills that resonate the most with MAC students.

鈥淭his year especially I鈥檝e been learning how to put myself in uncomfortable situations鈥攏ot just physically, but like if you need to tell somebody that they鈥檙e doing something wrong, now that I鈥檓 in more of a leadership position,鈥� said Chi. 鈥淚 don鈥檛 like doing that, but it鈥檚 important and it is beneficial to everybody involved, so I鈥檝e been working on that.鈥�

For her part, Sherley鈥檚 learned to embrace what鈥檚 familiar to any longtime backpacker: type two fun. On a recent climbing trip in central Washington, Sherley found herself camped out in a raging rainstorm that forced her to move her tent in the middle of the night.

鈥淭he next morning we were making pancakes and kind of miserable and just very wet and cold, and we were still laughing and having a really good time,鈥� she said.听 鈥淸I鈥檝e learned to find] ways to be happy in less than desirable conditions,鈥� she said.

Backpackers know that the resilience and empowerment found on the trail can serve a person well in all aspects of life. Blouin agrees that the skills learned in MAC will set kids up for success in future chapters. He said that he鈥檚 been especially impressed watching student leaders interact with adult volunteers and parents and handle interpersonal conflicts with maturity and poise.

鈥淎s somebody who works with youth a lot, you don鈥檛 see that happening. You don鈥檛 see youth in leader positions being able to go to an adult and say 鈥� 鈥榯his needs to be managed in this way,鈥欌�� he said. 鈥淭here is a level of empowerment that allows these youth to actually hold space and feel 鈥� that they have the knowledge that they need to be able to speak up in those ways.鈥�

As she wraps up her senior year of high school, it鈥檚 Sherley鈥檚 last year in MAC. Over the past three years, she鈥檚 learned how to manage a rope, how to plan camp meals for a group, and the basics of multi-pitch climbing. But Sherley has learned something more personal, too: spending time outside will always be a big part of the rest of her life. 鈥淚 know that this is where I鈥檓 really happy,鈥� she said.

To learn more about the Mountaineers 国产吃瓜黑料 Club, contact Hank Stein, Teen Clubs Coordinator for the Mountaineers.

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If you鈥檙e looking for one stroller to rule them all, let me spare you the wild goose chase. There鈥檚 no such thing鈥攁t least, not for adventurous families.

When I became a parent two years ago, I swore our garage would not be full of specialty kid gear that would only see occasional or specific use, i.e. a jogging stroller for running and gravel use; a compact stroller for everyday errands and travel; and a wagon for kid and gear schlepping. Lo and behold, we now have every one of these kid conveyors in our garage.

While each is in steady rotation, there鈥檚 one that has seen a surprising amount of use: our Veer All-Terrain wagon.

Veer All-Terrain Wagon Specifications

Open dimensions: 37鈥� L x 20鈥� W x 23鈥� H
Folded dimensions: 37鈥� L x 20鈥� W x 14鈥� H
Capacity: 55 lbs per seat (2 seats)
Weight: 32.6 lbs (with wheels); 24.6 lbs (wheels removed)

Pros and Cons

鈯� Pushes and handles like a stroller
鈯� Rugged, durable design
鈯� Burly wheels can navigate off-road terrain
鈯� Sleek design for compact storage
鈯� Expensive
鈯� Most helpful accessories not included in base price
鈯� Doesn鈥檛 fit as much gear as some other wagons

I first learned about this wagon through my local mom group鈥檚 Facebook page. One mom鈥檚 post about it racked up at least 50 comments from other women. Most posted glowing reviews, a few criticized it for being overpriced, but the majority were moms who were eager to get their hands on one but were striking out finding used options on second-hand marketplaces.

I hadn鈥檛 seen this level of discourse in this mom group since someone posted about turning their leftover breast milk into jewelry, so I decided to try the Veer All-Terrain Cruiser for myself to see what all the fuss was about.

We originally got this wagon to take on a beach vacation, where we knew we鈥檇 need something to haul our one-year-old and all of our gear from our condo to the beach each day. There are lots of affordable kid wagons out there; most are fine for toting kiddos and gear short distances on smooth surfaces, but many of them are a pain to pull when fully loaded down, and uncomfortable for the little ones riding in them.

Our son was barely 30 inches tall at the time, too little to comfortably sit up in a hold-all wagon without getting tossed around. We wanted a wagon that would pull double-duty as a stroller and gear hauler on vacation, and that鈥檚 exactly what the Veer All-Terrain Cruiser is: a wagon that you can push and steer like a stroller, and securely seats two kids.

What I Love About the Veer All-Terrain Cruiser

Smooth Steering and Handling

The Veer鈥攕tuffed to the gills with beach towels, toys, soft cooler, sun shade, diaper bag, and our son鈥攈andled the 0.2-mile trek (a mix of pavement, gravel, and sand) right onto the beach with aplomb. The wagon can鈥檛 navigate loose sand with just the stock polyurethane foam tires鈥攜ou鈥檒l need to purchase Veer鈥檚 beach wheel kit ($250) for that. But the stock tires did fine on packed sand when not fully loaded down, allowing us to take our son, who wasn鈥檛 yet walking, along for beach strolls.

In the months since that beach vacation, the Veer also became our go-to for walks around our neighborhood and trips to our local pool and parks because our son preferred it over our regular stroller. He liked being able to see more of his environment and sit more upright on the wagon鈥檚 built-in bench, made cozier with Veer鈥檚 comfort seat for toddlers ($89). This seat also includes a five-point-harness, which added extra support for our little guy, who needed more than just the three-point-buckle that鈥檚 included to comfortably stay upright on rugged terrain.

On those outings, the All-Terrain Cruiser handled cracked pavement, wonky curbs, gravel, grass, dirt, and even snow with ease. Like all wagons, it doesn’t have the tightest turning radius and smoothly navigating around corners takes some practice. My husband and I both decided we prefer pushing the wagon like a stroller versus pulling it like a traditional wagon. Ergonomically, the height-adjustable handle is designed primarily for pushing the wagon; the extra wide handlebar, while nice for hanging bags off of to accommodate more gear, makes pulling the Veer like a wagon awkward.

That said, having the ability to choose how you steer the Veer is clutch. We inevitably found ourselves pushing it along as a wagon for stretches of our walks because the retractable canopy ($59) doesn鈥檛 provide enough coverage to block out low-angle sun. In early morning or late afternoon, the sun鈥檚 low angle dictated whether we pushed or pulled the Veer to keep glaring rays out of our son鈥檚 eyes.

Sleek Design for Easy Storage

The smart design of this wagon is what sets it apart from similar wagons on the market. For how rugged and bombproof it is, it鈥檚 sleek and incredibly streamlined, making it super simple to fold up into a relatively small package and stash on a shelf in the garage, in the trunk or roof box of a car, or even in a gate-check bag for flying.

Simply unlock the handlebar with the push of a button and fold down the four sides of the wagon like a box to collapse the wagon onto itself; you can also pop off the wheels by clicking the buttons in the center of each wheel to get the wagon to lay completely flat. The whole process takes 30 seconds, and unfolding it is just as quick and easy. Even without being fully collapsed and with the wheels still on, the wagon easily fits into the back of our Chevy Equinox. And at 33 pounds with the wheels on, it鈥檚 not back-breaking to lift it.

You do need to remove the optional accessories鈥攍ike the sun canopy and toddler comfort seat鈥攖o get the wagon to pack all the way down; this adds a few steps and a little extra time to the pack-down process, which is why we got lazy and usually just loaded the wagon into our trunk not fully collapsed.

Downsides to the Veer All-Terrain Cruiser

Limited Gear-Hauling Capacity

The Veer All-Terrain may bill itself as a wagon, but it鈥檚 really a stroller. By design, it鈥檚 better at conveying kids than hauling a pile of gear. Its two built-in benches (that don鈥檛 collapse) and short sidewalls mean this wagon can鈥檛 hold the amount of gear that other, more basic wagons can (like the affordable ones you see at Target and Walmart).

When our little guy was in the wagon, we could fit a couple of towels, a large beach bag, and a bucket of beach toys in the wagon with him. With two kids in there, there鈥檚 not a lot of room for anything else. With one kiddo seated on a bench and an infant car seat attached over the second bench (a compatibility feature that鈥檚 a huge plus of this wagon), there鈥檚 room for even less extra stuff (and what you do shove under the car seat is hard to access).

Veer鈥檚 foldable storage basket ($79) helps to increase the wagon鈥檚 gear-hauling capacity and easily attaches to the back of the wagon, but in my opinion doesn鈥檛 offer enough extra storage to justify the additional purchase.

Expensive, Best Accessories Aren鈥檛 Included听

This brings me to the biggest downside of the Veer wagon: It comes with a hefty price tag, and that doesn鈥檛 even include some of the most helpful accessories (like the comfort seat insert, the storage basket, or the canopy). Heck, Veer even sells a sun visor ($19) for the canopy separately.

The stock wagon only comes with two cupholders that attach to the handlebar, and a snack tray with two cup holders that can click anywhere onto the sidewalls so kids can snack on the go. These accessories are nice, but they鈥檙e not as essential and don鈥檛 add as much as some of the other optional accessories (like a sun canopy).

Is the Veer All-Terrain Wagon Worth the Price?

So, is this wagon worth the price? The answer depends entirely on what you鈥檙e looking for from a wagon, and how much extra cash you have lying around. If you鈥檙e in need of a wagon that can haul a lot鈥攌ids and gear鈥攍ook elsewhere. Similar stroller-wagons like the Wonderfold W2 Elite ($479) have more capacity.

But what has impressed me about the Veer All-Terrain Cruiser is its smooth handling over all sorts of terrain, and its smart and rugged design that makes it so easy to fold, unfold, and travel with. We now have two kids (a baby and a toddler), so anytime we go anywhere we have to cart around a stroller that can carry two. Because the Veer All-Terrain Cruiser is much more compact and packable than our Thule Urban Glide 3 double stroller, this wagon accompanies us on more road trips and outings that require us to hop in the car first. So for our family, this wagon is totally worth it.

At $699, it鈥檚 expensive and double the price of similar hybrid stroller-wagons like the . But like a Yeti cooler, the Veer is over-engineered to be extremely rugged and durable, making it a piece of gear that will stand up to kid abuse, travel, and years of family adventures. There鈥檚 a reason they鈥檙e so hard to come by on second-hand marketplaces.

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An icy wind stings my cheeks as I sprint from my warm Subaru to the front porch of a stranger’s home in my suburban听neighborhood. I look between the milk delivery box and a patio chair and locate my prize, wrapped in a plastic grocery bag.

Back in my car, I pull up my phone, open Venmo, and send $30 to someone named Julia. I unwrap the bag and marvel at my loot: a purple and pink pair of girls rubber snow boots, dotted with a stylish flower print, in child’s size 12.

These are no ordinary boots鈥攖hey are a pair of . Parents everywhere, including yours truly, have come to appreciate the brand for keeping our kids’ feet cozy and dry on the coldest winter days. We also love Bogs’ extreme, eye-popping durability. In my experience, Bogs rubber-soled winter boots are virtually impervious to the highly destructive forces that a typical child can muster. Bogs can survive the harshest sandbox grit and cheese-grater-like playground equipment. Take a belt sander to the sole of your kid’s Bogs and the vulcanized rubber may still grip icy pavement.

I want to stress how unusual this is to all of the child-free readers out there. Should you someday welcome a small human into your life, then you鈥攍ike me鈥攎ay marvel at your child’s ability to immediately transform new apparel or footwear into thread-bare rags.

Bogs’ extreme durability creates a dynamic that fans of the boots know well.听 Your kid will outgrow his or her Bogs long before the boots wear out. Thus, you can sell them online when they no longer fit your kid’s feet and fetch a good price.

A thriving secondary market exists for Bogs on websites like Facebook Marketplace and Craigslist. If you check out the “Kids’ Bogs” page on the , you will scroll past hundreds, and perhaps thousands, of used pairs for sale.

My wife and I began buying and selling our daughter’s used Bogs on Facebook Marketplace a few years ago. Our five-year-old is on her fifth pair. Here’s the thing: we’ve only purchased one pair new. The MSRP on a pair of Bogs kids winter boots is $85, but you can easily score a set with plenty of life left in them online in the $30-50 range.

For years I wondered whether this dynamic was hurting the company’s bottom line, since so many customers, like me, simply buy them from other parents.

I posed this question (does Bogs’ extreme durability hurt sales?) to Megan Vinton, Bogs鈥� senior director of product, during a recent phone call, and I got a murky answer: probably not, but honestly, who knows?

“We’ve never really analyzed the secondary marketplace that way,” she told me. “But the price that people can command for a used pair is pretty impressive.”

Vinton told me that the company has long known that used Bogs are sought-after items online. A few years back, she said, there was an internal conversation among company officials about creating Bogs’ own re-selling marketplace for used boots. But employees struggled to find the right e-commerce infrastructure and model to pursue. Plus, there was a decent argument that Bogs’ popularity on Craigslist and Facebook Marketplace actually boosted the brand’s popularity. So the whole project was scrapped.

“We’re content and happy to let the online community of used sellers thrive,” she said. “So many people’s entrance to our brand is from word-of-mouth and community purchasing.”

Bogs Neo-Classic Solid Kids鈥� Boots

Instead, Vinton said, Bogs has found ways to lean into its reputation for longevity. Each pair of Bogs kids’ boots comes with a name tag inside that has room for three different names. And a few years ago, Bogs started a program called . The company will cover the shipping cost for customers to mail their used boots to the Portland, Oregon headquarters. Employees will then freshen up the footwear and donate them to outdoor kids’ programs and preschools.

“We want to keep them out of landfills,” says Chris Enlow, the company’s head of sustainability. “Creating a plug-and-play method to give them to a charity is how we prefer to engage in re-circulating boots.”

So, why do these kids boots last so long, when a typical child may only wear them for one or two seasons? Vinton said that, years ago, the company committed to using the same durability standards for a toddler’s boot as for the ones it manufactured for ranchers and dairy hands. Employees lay vulcanized rubber strips by hand over a neoprene sock to construct the waterproof lower. The company seeks out the strongest rubber compounds that won’t crack after a year spent in the sun, wind, and rain.

The company applies its latest technology to all of its boots, not just the ones made for lumberjacks or ranch hands. The newest models are made from vulcanized rubber that’s injected into a hard mold to create a seamless sole and lower area. And yeah, your three-year-old nephew can stomp through puddles in rocket ship-emblazoned boots that are made this way

“You don’t want people saying ‘Oh, these boots used to last longer,鈥欌�� Enlow said.

The lifespan of the pink and purple Bogs are far from my mind as I park in my driveway and hurry indoors. I find my daughter scribbling in a coloring book, and I slip her feet into the new boots to make sure they fit.

Then I step out of the way and let her gaze at the color scheme and the fancy flower print. It’s somewhat similar to the design of her older pair, which sit near near our front door, ready for me to post online.

“Good,” she says, and then returns to coloring.

Fred was the editor-in-chief at VeloNews from 2016 to 2021. Prior to that he was a regular contributor to The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, and The New York Times. Fred is the proud father of his five-year-old daughter, Magnolia, whose feet are growing like weeds.听

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When I heard the news that a for reckless conduct after someone spotted her ten-year-old son walking alone less than a mile from home, the first thing I did was open Google Maps. I looked up the distance between my house and a nearby middle school that my six-year-old daughter sometimes walks to with a friend her age. They get a thrill from playing at its playground听without a grown-up听around, and I relish the freedom of getting the house to myself for half an hour.

Still, I’m relieved every time I hear my daughter鈥檚 voice approaching our driveway after one of her mini-adventures鈥攚hich, according to my Google Maps search, spans less than half a mile round trip. My relief stems less from my concern that something might actually happen to her, and more from the possibility听that a neighbor or passerby might judge me to be negligent for letting her walk to a playground on her own.

Even before the story about the Georgia mom blew up the internet, I鈥檇 heard similar reports: the Texas mom handcuffed and jailed overnight for making her eight-year-old home; the Maryland siblings by police for playing alone at a playground.

Each time one of these stories makes headlines, the American public loses its collective shit. People from all sides of the political spectrum are equally outraged, agreeing (for once) that helicopter-parenting culture has gone too far. The same comments echo across the internet: When I was a kid, my parents didn鈥檛 care where we were, as long as we were home when the streetlights came on! Or: When I was that age, I walked home from school and babysat my younger siblings!听

The parents I know in real life are similarly supportive of giving our children freedom to roam, and horrified that we might get in trouble for it. One friend has printed out and laminated a 鈥溾�� card for her eight-year-old to carry. If a concerned citizen tries to intervene, the child can present the card, which includes her parents鈥� phone number and states that she is not lost or neglected.

My sister-in-law, meanwhile, told me that two of her kids, ages 15 and 8, were recently walking home from the library when a nice older woman pulled her car alongside them, begging them to get in so she could give them a ride home. The woman was so distraught over what she perceived as the kids鈥� risky behavior that she thought asking them to get in a car with a stranger was better than letting them walk unsupervised down a familiar suburban street in broad daylight.

Though such lapses of judgement are well-intentioned, the chances of a child being either kidnapped or hit by a car are in the United States, and certainly lower than they were in the eighties and nineties when I was a kid. Yet in part because media reports tend to amplify violence and tragedy, such incidents can seem more common than they actually are, prompting some people to misjudge the risk of children acting independently.

Anecdotally, many of the people concerned by modern kids walking or playing alone seem to be who themselves had ample freedom growing up but may have watched too much CSI since then. My own peers鈥攅lder Millennials, mostly鈥攈ave absorbed plenty of articles of letting our kids manage risks and build independence, and many of us try to encourage such behaviors.

A 2023 sort of backs this up, finding that only 28 percent of Millennial parents are 鈥渧ery concerned鈥� about their child getting kidnapped. The same study found that Black and Hispanic parents are far more concerned than white or Asian parents about their kids getting shot, which aligns with demographic trends of gun violence and underscores the fact that free-range parenting is a privilege of living somewhere relatively safe.

Personally, I worry more about the societal or legal repercussions of letting my kid roam the neighborhood unsupervised than I do about some stranger snatching her up. But what if my concerns are just as overblown as those of the lady in the car who tried to stop my niece and nephew from walking home? Lenore Skenazy, who coined the term 鈥渇ree-range parenting鈥� and co-founded the childhood independence nonprofit Let Grow, emphasizes that it鈥檚 for parents to face legal action for letting their kids play outside or walk home alone鈥攕o uncommon, in fact, that when it does happen, it becomes national news.

In other words, just as the risk of a child getting abducted is minuscule, so is the chance that someone will call the police if I let my six-year-old explore outside with a friend鈥攅specially now that more states are passing free-range parenting laws.

Parenting is inherently risky. The world is not and never will be fully safe. But instead of being influenced by stories of what could go wrong, maybe the best thing we can do for our kids and ourselves is to focus instead on all the things that are still OK鈥攍ike my daughter, skipping up the driveway with her best friend, her cheeks flushed from cold and excitement, coming home just as the streetlights are turning on and I鈥檓 pulling a hot dinner from the oven.

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Whenever we go on family vacations, my husband is obsessed with activities. For instance, we recently had a day where we went fishing in the morning, went to a museum in the afternoon, and had tickets for a show in the evening. We had one unscheduled hour after lunch, and he insisted that we use it to take the toddler to the pool. He said she needed to be 鈥渁ctive鈥� because she had napped while we were fishing, even though she would have been fine playing quietly in the hotel room. The next day was gray and rainy, but he led us on a hike (I carried the baby and he carried the toddler), and then unilaterally decided to extend it partway through, but didn鈥檛 even mention to me that he was leading us on a longer route than we鈥檇 agreed on. By the time I caught on, both kids were exhausted and we were out of snacks, but there were still two miles left. I鈥檒l admit I was pretty crabby about it.

I鈥檇 been up breastfeeding during the night and watched both kids in the morning while he worked out (I鈥檓 a stay-at-home mom, so this is pretty typical), and honestly I hadn鈥檛 even wanted to go hiking at all, and was just trying to be a good sport. I would much rather have relaxed for the afternoon. I know we鈥檙e spending money on the trip and should make the most of it, but does that have to mean filling every possible minute?

I asked a group of friends about their family travel experiences, and several of them nodded in recognition when I shared your story. One family even has a term for it: 鈥淒ad Camp,鈥� referring to days filled with ambitious dad-planned activities that everyone else complains about. In their case, the term is one of half-endearment, a running joke as they all slog through, say, a desert hike in the scorching heat of the afternoon. Yes, it鈥檚 a gift to bring loved ones on adventures that they would never have considered alone. But it鈥檚 also a gift to consider their needs and energy levels; too much pressure can turn someone off an otherwise-fun activity forever.

I鈥檓 sure your husband means well. I imagine he misses his family while he鈥檚 at work, and he wants to tell people at work about his vacation. He doesn鈥檛 know how exhausting it is to care for a baby and a toddler because he rarely does it himself, and when he does, it鈥檚 a novelty; he can tell himself that the reason it鈥檚 so hard is because 鈥測ou鈥檙e better at it.鈥� I suspect that this dynamic is less about gender鈥攖hat is, that it鈥檚 endemic to dads specifically鈥攁nd far more about parents who aren鈥檛 primarily involved in childcare having FOMO about spending time with their family, not realizing that their kids鈥� stamina is more limited than theirs, and being oblivious about the degree to which their partner is working constantly and may need to rest, not hustle, when they get the chance. If your job is childcare, then traveling with kids . Is it wonderful? Absolutely! But it鈥檚 still the same work that you do at home鈥攋ust harder.

The solution here is pretty straightforward: if he wants to do ambitious things on vacation, he should either bring the kids with him while you have solo time (he鈥檒l learn darn quickly about what happens when you run out of snacks), or spend more time on childcare in general, so that you have the energy to join in. Does he recognize that if you watch the kids the whole time he works, that means that he has more responsibility鈥攏ot less鈥攖o watch them when he鈥檚 not working? Is it possible that his lifestyle hasn鈥檛 changed all that much since becoming a parent, so he hasn鈥檛 yet learned that you can鈥檛 do every single thing you want when there鈥檚 a baby and toddler along? I鈥檓 curious, after your hike, if he realized that he鈥檇 made an error in unilaterally extending the trip. Did he apologize, and promise to learn from the experience? Or does he still think that he did nothing wrong?

Vacations need to work for the whole family, not just him. If you watched the kids for part of the morning while he exercised, he should watch them for the rest of the morning, so you get time for yourself, too. When you鈥檙e breastfeeding, that鈥檚 trickier, but he can still take the toddler with him. Maybe part of his workout could entail taking your older kid to a park and running in circles with her, or doing pushups with her on his back. Another option: a friend taught me recently about Baby Yoga, where you lie on the floor next to a baby and try to match and hold each pose they strike. I鈥檝e rarely been so sore the next day.

You could also request that you each plan alternate days of the trip. Are you exhausted from his activities? No problem. The next day is for lounging in a cabana. This way, you can achieve a modicum of balance.

Suggesting these changes may make him feel hurt, or defensive, but if he has a fundamentally egalitarian attitude toward family life, then he should come to understand the logic behind your requests. If he鈥檚 stuck in the 1950s and believes that childcare is a woman鈥檚 job, then he should still realize that you can鈥檛 magically generate extra energy when it鈥檚 all going toward your kids. In that case, ironically, you may be able to put your foot down more, pulling rank as primary caregiver to have the final say on what the kids (and you) are actually capable of enjoying on any given day.

And if someone reading this feels a flicker of concern about whether they, too, may be spearheading 鈥淒ad Camp,鈥� consider these questions.

1. Does your family want to do the fun and edifying things you plan?

A) Yes.

B) No, they say they don鈥檛 want to.

2. If your family says they don鈥檛 want to do the fun things you planned, what do you do?

A) Explain why they鈥檙e wrong, then make them do it anyway.

B) Listen to their concerns, and adjust accordingly. This doesn鈥檛 always mean canceling your activities, but you might shorten them, and add or subtract other things from the agenda.

If you selected A for both, congrats! You鈥檙e not a perpetrator of forced fun. And if you selected yes, you鈥檒l be happy to know that there鈥檚 a simple solution: listen to the people you love.

Blair Braverman writes our Tough Love column. Last month, she gave advice on how to know when to quit your thru-hike and what to do when you can鈥檛 afford your friend group鈥檚 vacations.

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Kitzsteinhorn, a 10,000-foot Austrian peak that sits in the Alps just south of Salzburg, is not considered a draw for serious mountaineers. But to a group of Ukrainian refugees who climbed it last August, as part of a summer camp hosted by the U.S.-based , Kitzsteinhorn symbolized hope.

Filmmaker and photographer Max Lowe documented his second trip to Healing Base Camp, a weeklong program for families whose lives were upended by the violence of Russia鈥檚 invasion of Ukraine. A mix of talk therapy, art classes, and guided mountaineering expeditions, the camp is about building resilience. 鈥淎ll of these people lost someone far too soon,鈥� says Lowe, who is based in Bozeman, Montana. 鈥淭here鈥檚 beauty in the fact that they鈥檙e showing up here and learning how to move forward.鈥�

Lowe first visited in the summer of 2022 for his documentary , released on Netflix in 2023. The film follows ten-year-old Milana and her grandmother Olga as they immerse themselves in camp activities. Milana, initially scared to climb, gains confidence throughout the week and eventually summits Kitzsteinhorn. Both she and Olga attended again when Lowe did. 鈥淭he difference in Milana from the year before was remarkable,鈥� he says. 鈥淪he pushed through everything and just really seemed like a changed girl.鈥�

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Let鈥檚 be clear: The toys do not make the summer. It鈥檚 the intention we as parents put into spending longer days outside with the kids once the school year ends that can make the season feel special. We can say, though, that the toys do make summer easier.

Gear that鈥檚 designed specifically for kids and thoughtfully built with smart performance details can make or break your littles鈥� first camping trip or hike, and make picking up a new sport a lot more fun. We vetted kid-specific bikes, clothing, surfboards, and adjacent gear to bring you the best bet to maximize summer fun.

At a Glance

• How We Test
• Meet the Lead Testers

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Isle Nugget Surfboard

Sizes: 5鈥�4鈥�

Pros and Cons
鈯� Durable
鈯� Works for kids and adults
鈯� Removable fins are hard to get in/out

It is rare that a product fulfills the needs of both an advanced and beginner in a sport, but the Nugget managed that feat. With a soft exterior coupled with a rigid interior, this versatile board catered to all skill levels and kids from 40 pounds to adults of 180 pounds.

We taught two kids under 6 how to surf on this 5鈥�4鈥� quad fin soft top board last summer. It鈥檚 an ideal longboard for littles to learn on and also proved to be a fun shortboard for adults. The Nugget鈥檚 top features a 1.3 millimeter Polycarbonate 鈥渟kin鈥� that gripped little feet without sticky wax and was burly enough that it showed little wear and tear after living under a big Douglas Fir for most of the summer. Adults were able to pump it down the line on heavy shore break thanks to the rigidity from two Fiberglass stringers molded into the EPS core.

Prevelo Zulu 4 Mountain Bike

Sizes: Zulu series has bikes ranging from 20-inch wheels (Zulu 1) to 26-inch wheels (Zulu 5)
Weight: 22 lbs

Pros and Cons
鈯� Nimble
鈯� Great transition bike for kids getting off-road for the first time
鈯� Big investment for a bike a kid will grow out of

This fully-featured mountain bike has all of the pieces to make the intimidating (for kids and parents) transition from kiddo cyclist to kiddo mountain biker. The large 24-inch tires and front fork with 100 millimeters of travel proved key in teaching one eight year old how to trust a mountain bike鈥檚 ability to absorb rugged terrain.

While the Zulu 4 was beefy enough to eat up baseball sized rocks, it still proved manageable enough for a sub 100-pound rider thanks to the aluminum frame鈥檚 low and narrow geometry.

Shredly Littles Shorts

Sizes: XS – XL

Pros and Cons
鈯� Fast drying time
鈯� Versatile
鈯� Light colorways show dirt

Multi-sport days can be a key element of the alchemy of summer, but changing your kids鈥� outfits between those sports can be a pain and ruin the momentum of a fun day. The secret to success is a versatile piece like Shredly鈥檚 Littles Shorts.

These quick-drying shorts made from recycled polyester spandex became a go-to for all summer activities, from pool sessions, to long days at the beach, to mountain biking. The high elasticity in the waist and slightly baggy cut allowed our kid testers to move freely, earning a thumbs up from one five-year-old who wore the Littles during a pump track session and then right to gymnastics class.

CamelBak Kids Mini MULE Hydration Pack with Crux 1.5L Reservoir

Pros and Cons
鈯� Smartly built for kid-specific carry
鈯� Highly adjustable to grow with the kiddos
鈯� Reservoir can be tough for kids to fill

Getting a kiddo of any age to stay hydrated during summer adventures is as important as it can be challenging. This recycled 200-denier polyester reservoir pack proved low profile enough that even sub 35-pound testers didn鈥檛 complain about lugging it around for multi-hour bike rides.

The sternum strap and stretchy body materials were adjustable enough that testers from 32-pounds to 90-pounds were able to dial in a comfortable fit. The Mini MULE鈥檚 main compartment holds a 1.5 liter bladder, which is plenty to hydrate kiddos for three to four hour adventures, and two exterior pockets hold a sun hat, snacks, and extras like a pocket notebook and colored pencil case.

The Mini MULE鈥檚 mesh arm straps, harness, and cushy, porous back panel proved highly breathable and produced no complaints from a five year old tester during a nearly hour long ride in 95-degrees.

Helly Hansen JR Marka Fleece Jacket

Sizes: 8-16

Pros and Cons
鈯� Wide temperature range
鈯� Highly breathable
鈯� Light pilling after a few months of heavy use

This fleece made from two-way stretch, 100-percent recycled polyester covers a wide temperature range, making it a great emergency layer to keep in the back of your car for just-in-case moments.

It was a nice little comfort bump for five year old Jojo on nights that dipped into the mid-fifties and even proved enough over pajamas on a 42-degree early morning bike ride. Credit the medium-high loft coupled with the porousness of the fleece鈥檚 exterior. Other smart design features testers loved: a supple chin guard to protect wee faces from the zipper, as well as a raglan sleeve and hyper-stretchy elastic cuffs and waist for freedom of movement.

Cotopaxi Kids Teca Half Zip Windbreaker

Sizes: XS-XL

Pros and Cons
鈯� Highly packable
鈯� Kangaroo pocket for storage
鈯� Some testers became obsessed with constantly opening/closing the velcro kangaroo pouch

A solid kids windbreaker can be a lifesaver in a freak summer rainstorm but 颈蝉苍鈥檛 worth lugging around if it鈥檚 bulky. Enter the Kids Teca Half Zip, a lightweight windbreaker that has everything an ambitious child adventurer needs鈥攁 face-hugging hood and a kangaroo pouch to stash snacks鈥攊n a package that weighs only 1.2 pounds and squishes down to the size of a tangerine.

It鈥檚 not waterproof, but it kept one kiddo mostly protected from the elements when a sudden thunderstorm hit on a hike (the kid tester got back to the trailhead a bit wet, though she stayed warm).

Hoka Speedgoat 5 Kids Trail Running Shoe

Sizes: 3.5 Y – 7 Y

Pros and Cons
鈯� Excellent breathability
鈯� Sturdy support
鈯� Fantastic traction
鈯� Expensive for a shoe your kid will grow out of

Kids hiking and running shoes have a track record of being underbuilt鈥攏ot the case with the Speedgoat 5 Kids. Jakob Schiller鈥檚 kids appreciated the burliness of this shoe鈥檚 durable rubber outsole and lugs while scrambling up myriad class three routes on hikes in New Mexico.

The woven mesh upper with 21 percent recycled polyester breathed well enough that the kiddos鈥� feet didn鈥檛 get too hot during nearly triple digit hikes, and the 30-percent sugarcane midsole hugged young soles with that lovely cushion that caused parent testers to fall in love with Hoka.

Patagonia Baby Capilene Silkweight Hoodie

Sizes: 3-6 months – 5T

Pros and Cons
鈯� Excellent fit
鈯� Well-designed hood
鈯� Holds onto stink if not washed regularly

Keeping an infant shaded from the summer sun is no small feat, especially when you鈥檙e hiking or playing in the water. This UPF 40+ hoodie鈥檚 extra long drop tail hem, oversized sleeves, and three panel hood did the trick. The four-way stretch fabric (94-percent polyester 6-percent spandex jersey) was both pliable and supple enough next to skin that an 18-month-old tester wasn鈥檛 bothered by the hood鈥攁nd actually kept it on鈥攆or a four-hour excursion to Ashland, OR鈥檚 swimming reservoir.

Opinel No. 07 My First Opinel Folding Knife

Pros and Cons
鈯� Kids-specific safety features
鈯� Tough to clean

Camping trips and outdoor adventures are a great time to give your kiddo a little more agency over their day to day as well as take on new risks鈥攍ike getting their first knife. Opinel鈥檚 My First Folding Knife proved sharp enough along the front blade to actually cut everything from kindling to cheese, was great for whittling, yet dull enough at the tip that it was safe for the littles to use after a little conversation around knife safety.

Our tester鈥檚 sample lived in Jojo鈥檚 pack all summer and she spent more time showing friends its safety features (like a rotating locking mechanism at the top of the handle) than actually cutting or whittling. Though it hasn鈥檛 seen extensive use yet, her parents agreed it was still a great investment.

Backpacker鈥檚 Pantry Three Cheese Mac and Cheese

Pros and Cons
鈯� Easy way to pack in calories
鈯� Long shelf life
鈯� More expensive than grocery store Mac and Cheese

Childrens鈥� blood sugar can define a trip. Having quick and easy Mac and Cheese on hand felt like a super power on camping trips. Even our pickiest three-year-old testers did not turn up little noses to this tender elbow pasta and parmesan, romano, and cheddar treat.

The 510-calories per pouch packed enough of a punch that it could feed three young kids, and its 10-year shelf life meant that parents didn鈥檛 have to think twice about pulling it out of a camp box and whipping it up as hunger fueled meltdowns reached a fever pitch. Preparation requires just one cup of water and takes a total of 15 minutes. A note on allergens: it does contain eggs, milk, and wheat.

How We Test

• Number of products tested: 47
• Number of kiddo testers: 10
• Number of parent moderators: 5
• Age range of testers: 18-months to 9-years-old
• Temperature range: Low 40s to 106-degrees

We camped a lot to test kids’ gear and determine how each performed out in the elements last summer. Our cadre of ten child testers put in over 75 combined days camping in spots from the Northern Californian coast, to the rivers and woods of Oregon, to Penasco, New Mexico. We brought all the gear and notebooks, set the kids loose, then listened to what the wee ones had to say.

We depended on parents to coordinate the testing, but relied on the kids for performance feedback. We鈥檝e found that paying close attention to the children鈥檚 opinions about their gear while adventuring in the elements yields the best testers鈥� notes. Unlike most adults, kids are readily willing to display their displeasure and do not have any brand loyalty or biases.

Meet the Lead Testers

Category manager Joe Jackson has been testing gear professionally for 国产吃瓜黑料 for over a decade. He was the managing editor for gear guides past and was 翱耻迟蝉颈诲别鈥檚 longest running Gear Guy columnist.

Jackson鈥檚 daughter Jojo, Josie, or 鈥淭he Joj,鈥� has been testing gear for this publication since the day she left the hospital after she was born. She just turned six and can explain the performance differences between cotton and a synthetic next-to-skin layer to an adult in a meaningful way.

Jakob Schiller has been testing outdoor products professionally for as long as Jackson and was his boss at 国产吃瓜黑料 for two years where they bickered like brothers about gear. He is raising four children that come with him on most of his wild southwest-based adventures.

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I gave birth to my first kid one week before Mother鈥檚 Day last year. Had you asked me then what I wanted for Mother鈥檚 Day, I would have said a pok茅 bowl and a Mexican lager (or two or three)鈥攖he things I had been craving most after nine months of deprivation.

As for gifts that would make motherhood easier, I had no clue what those might be. According to the Instagram posts I was being fed at the time, that list would have included a trendy leather diaper bag, aromatherapy candles or bath bombs, and a jumbo Stanley water bottle.

Now, 11 months into my mom gig, I know exactly what I would have put on my first Mother鈥檚 Day wish list: gear to help me and baby get outdoors. What made my first months of motherhood both easier and more pleasurable was doing what I loved to do pre-baby鈥攚ith my new family. That included walks and then eventually hikes, road trips to see friends and family, SUP days at our local lake, and new activities like stroller-blading (more on that below).

Getting out the door with an infant and keeping them comfortable, happy, and fed is no small feat, even when you鈥檙e just headed out on errands. Throw in an outdoor activity, and you best be prepared. To any new, outdoorsy moms making their first Mother鈥檚 Day wish list鈥攐r to the thoughtful partners, friends, and family members wondering what to get the new mom in their lives鈥攈ere are six products that made outdoor adventures with an infant not only manageable, but fun.

Some of these items are admittedly pricey, but in my experience, well worth the investment. Mom hack: You can find some of these bigger ticket items in almost-new condition on sites like , , , and Facebook Marketplace.

At a Glance

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A Baby Carrier Built for Hiking

Ergobaby Omni 360 Mesh

There are a plethora of baby carrier options on the market鈥攆rom simple wraps best suited to toting infants around the house to versatile and burly carriers designed for more active pursuits. The Ergobaby Omni 360 Mesh falls into the second category.

This one-size-fits-all carrier accommodates a newborn from 7 pounds to a toddler of 45 pounds and has four carry modes (front-facing inward; front-facing outward; hip-carry; and back-carry). It also features mesh panels in the front for better breathability鈥攌ey when you鈥檙e essentially carrying around a little furnace.

I started using the Omni 360 when our baby was around three weeks old with an infant insert (at 7 pounds and 19.5 inches long, he seemed to drown in the carrier without the insert). Getting the carrier on by yourself is a little cumbersome given the two shoulder straps, one back strap, and the main hip belt you have to buckle and cinch, but once you get it set up for your baby and your body, it becomes more intuitive. After one week of use, I had no issues getting it on and placing baby in it by myself.

And like a good backpack, all those straps and attachment points exist to take the load off your body, making the Omni 360 a great option for longer walks and hikes. I regularly carried our baby in it for 4-plus-mile hikes and experienced no pressure points, load shifting, or uncomfortable chafing.

An All-Terrain Stroller to Get Off the Beaten Path

Thule Urban Glide

We weren鈥檛 expecting to use the Thule Urban Glide before our kiddo turned six months old, since that鈥檚 when he鈥檇 be big enough to safely sit in the forward-facing, upright position. But this stroller is so much nicer to push around than the other stroller we own that we bought the Thule car seat adapter and used the Urban Glide with an infant car seat from day one. (You can also buy a bassinet attachment for this stroller.)

The three large tires鈥攊ncluding a front swivel wheel that locks out鈥攏avigate uneven sidewalks, gravel and dirt trails, and grassy parks like a dream. While the Urban Glide is not as aerodynamic as the , which Thule markets as their jogging stroller, this model can also be used for jogging. It can even be used for stroller-blading鈥攁ka, rollerblading as you push the stroller鈥攁n activity that I鈥檓 going to take credit for inventing. Keep the speeds low and use the integrated twist hand break in the handle when going downhill, and you鈥檒l have no issue keeping the stroller safely under control.

The only downsides to the Thule Urban Glide: price and bulk. It鈥檚 an investment, but we found ours secondhand and in great condition for $400 on Facebook Marketplace. It鈥檚 also heavy and doesn鈥檛 pack down as well as other, more streamlined strollers. The Urban Glide takes up the majority of trunk space in our Hyundai Santa Fe and doesn鈥檛 leave much room for other gear or dogs. On big road trips, we鈥檝e started popping the wheels off (easy enough) and stashing the stroller in our roof box.

A Portable Sound Machine for Sound Sleep Anywhere

Roar Sound Machine + Speaker

Measuring roughly 5-by-2-by-1-inches, this rugged, waterproof sound machine-and-speaker-in-one is about the size of two decks of cards stacked side by side. This makes it much smaller than your average sound machine and even many portable, bluetooth speakers on the market. However, its diminutive size belies its power.

The Roar can blast noise鈥攅ither one of the three integrated sounds (brown noise, waves, or rain) or any other sound of your choosing when connected to a phone via bluetooth.听It also has an impressive 20-plus-hour battery life. But parents be warned: Do not let this thing run out of battery while in use. On a few occasions we went too long between charges, only to have our son woken up in the middle of the night by a loud, female voice declaring repeatedly that the device had 鈥渓ow battery.鈥� Unfortunately, there鈥檚 no way to determine how much battery life remains鈥攖here鈥檚 no battery life indicator on the device, so you just have to be proactive in charging.

That鈥檚 the biggest downside to the Roar Sound Machine: it doesn鈥檛 have a user-friendly control panel. It only features five buttons (power, play/skip to next sound, and two volume buttons), and these rubber buttons are black, blending in with the rest of the speaker. This makes it almost impossible to see the control panel in low light (as in a darkened bedroom or tent). I鈥檝e learned to set the Roar to our desired settings before turning off lights to avoid fumbling with the controls in the dark.

Despite these shortcomings, the Roar Sound Machine + Speaker has become a must-pack piece of baby gear for any overnight trip or outing that will require a nap away from home.

A Thermos to Make Formula on the Go

Purist Maker 10 oz

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I used the 10-ounce Maker for coffee and tea long before I had a kid, but now I use it regularly to make my son鈥檚 formula on the go. We learned early on that our kid was finicky about the temperature of his bottled milk. He liked it much warmer than room temperature, which proved challenging on high-alpine hikes in the colder months. At first, we鈥檇 premake his bottles at home the morning of our adventure, only to discover that by the time we fed him on-the-go, the milk had cooled too much. We finally wisened up and started pre-filling his bottles with formula and carrying hot water in the Purist Maker on our hikes, so we could serve warm milk on demand.

We love the small size of the 10-ounce Maker because it doesn鈥檛 take up much pack space, yet it holds enough hot water that we can mix it with regular water to fill two 6-ounce bottles of formula. Bonus: Purist makes three different types of lids that are interchangeable between their different thermoses. We like the Scope Top because it allows us to pour water into our son鈥檚 bottles without spilling or letting much heat escape in the process.

A Cooler to Tote Baby鈥檚 Milk

Yeti Hopper Flip 12

I know I鈥檓 probably preaching to the converted, but you just can鈥檛 beat a Yeti cooler when it comes to keeping drinks and food chilled. When I needed a reliable way to keep pumped breast milk cold on the go, this is the cooler I reached for. Any mom knows that breastmilk is liquid gold and you simply do not mess around when it comes to storing it properly to ensure not a drop goes to waste. The Yeti Hopper Flip 12 put me at ease.

It reliably kept its contents cool with two ice packs when I left it in a parked car for six hours during a summer hike. Just two gripes: The leak-proof zipper is burly鈥攖oo burly to easily unzip with one hand (and moms often only have one hand free). And like all of Yeti鈥檚 products, it鈥檚 crazy expensive. But you do get what you pay for: superior cooling and a bombroof design. If you just need a soft cooler to store a few bottles of breastmilk, the Yeti Hopper Flip 12 is overkill鈥擨鈥檇 size down to the Hopper Flip 8, which would be less bulky to tote around. But if you also want a cooler that will fit snacks for you, baby bottles, and potentially even your breast pump parts, the Hopper Flip 12 is a good size.

A Folding Seat for Trailside Pitstops

Crazy Creek HEX 2.0 Original Chair

We’ve owned a version of this Crazy Creek chair for more than ten years and it’s been a staple for camping trips and lawn concerts. Now, it lives in the storage basket of our Thule Urban Glide stroller for trailside pitstops with baby.

There’s a lot to love about this portable chair, from its simple, lightweight design that rolls up for compact storage to its adjustable straps that make dialing in your optimal reclining position a cinch. I’ve used it many times to nurse our son along the trail, and even for emergency diaper changes鈥攕imply unclip the straps to unfold the chair into a flat mat. It’s not the most comfortable of Crazy Creek’s folding chair options, but it is the most lightweight and packable, making it a winning choice for moms on the go.

A Versatile Picnic Blanket

Coalatree Kachula Blanket

My mother-in-law gifted this versatile blanket to us right after our son was born and it’s become our go-to for outdoor picnics and playtime. Coalatree bills the Kachula as “the Swiss army knife of blankets,” an apt description for this blanket that can be converted into an emergency poncho via an attachable hood and pack into itself to become a travel pillow. Fully unfolded, it measures 50-by-72-inches, making it plenty big for two adults and a baby to sprawl out on.

I love that the top fabric (made from fully recycled materials) is a soft brushed nylon flannel that doesn’t irritate baby’s sensitive skin when he’s rolling around in just his diaper. It’s also water resistant, so you don’t have to stress about spilled liquids or baby accidents. My one gripe: the ripstop nylon bottom of the blanket is great for resisting snags, but it’s prone to sliding around on grassy hillsides.

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Dear Sundog: My wife and I are climbers who now have a baby and a toddler. We鈥檝e started to get back into climbing and take the kids with us to a nearby climbing area. Sometimes we go with other parents so we can share childcare while the adults are climbing. We get a lot of dirty looks and even some comments from others about how our kids are disturbing the peace. But we can鈥檛 always coordinate with other families, and of course climbing takes two people, so we can鈥檛 climb and watch the kids at the same time. The best solution appears to be bringing our nanny who usually takes the weekends off but could be persuaded to come with us on the weekend, but I鈥檝e never seen or heard of anyone doing this, and I wonder why not. 鈥�Kids For Climbing

Dear KFC: Never would Sundog suggest that some enthusiasts give up their passions merely for having procreated. The mores of yesterday in which children stayed in children鈥檚 places (usually with the wife) have all been obliterated, especially since the pandemic. People take their kids to bars, fancy bistros, even the goddamn symphony. And I can empathize. Parenting in America these days can be lonely: most of us don鈥檛 live with or near extended family that makes up the 鈥渧illage鈥� upbringing that鈥檚 been part of humanity for millennia. Parents are reminded that just about everything is dangerous: see the legally required merchandise like bike helmets and car seats that didn鈥檛 even exist when we were children, and the risk-of-death labels on everything from plastic bags to peanut butter to five-gallon buckets. A brief flicking through cable news assures us that strangers should not be trusted; people don鈥檛 know their neighbors; all of which results in a generation of parents understandably afraid to let their kids out of their sight. So I commend you, KFC, for dragging your kids to the cliffs, because unless you鈥檝e cracked the code of truly 听who will watch your kids for you, then the well-known alternative is staying home or at the playground which gets unbearably dull pretty quick.

But I fear you may be taking a good instinct a bit too far. When your kids are old enough to climb, then by all means take them. But when they’re still toddling, they seem a danger to themselves and if they鈥攍ike 100 percent of small children鈥� make a lot of noise, then they’re also a nuisance and danger to other climbers. If you absolutely must expose the kids to climbing, take them to the gym. As for your babysitter idea: if you鈥檙e fortunate enough to be able to afford a trustworthy nanny for a whole day, then by all means hire them鈥攁nd leave them at home with the kids. Who knows, maybe mom and dad will find a place for a quick roadside bivy in transit to the crag.

To review, here are some places that are good to take toddlers and babies:

• Ski resorts
• Cross country skiing
• Floating class-I rivers
• Climbing gyms
• Any outdoor concert, regardless of genre

And here are the places you should not take them:

• BASE jumping
• The opera
• Congressional hearings
• Backcountry skiing
• The crag

And just to show that Sundog 颈蝉苍鈥檛 just some kid-hating grouch who wants them out of my sight, let me weigh in on a hotly-debated question that you didn鈥檛 ask: should I bring my kid to the brewery?

I give a whole-hearted yes. Consider that the brewery may provide the deepest sense of contentedness the parent has experienced since the birth of the child. The parent is drinking alcohol. The child is…somewhere, out of eyesight, out of earshot. The brewery has generously provided a fenced outdoor enclosure, perhaps even toy bulldozers and a sandbox, harmless banjo players picking tunes that cause the child to dance about and don鈥檛 include obvious obscenity or ideations of violence. Ya gotta just let Dad gulp down his mosaic hop IPA or whatever. Those things are strong. They make him feel good. This is how they do it in Europe, I heard that somewhere. Celebrate.

Readers respond: Should hikers blast music on the trail?

The issue with amplified music is more akin to overly bright lights beaming into my eyes or trash left behind. These are impacts that dramatically impact mine and others experience and dramatically changes the environment. No one has that privilege without group/community consent. There are several alternatives to listen to electronic music without forcing me to participate without my consent. It鈥檚 a clear invasion of privacy and disregard for the other.

The solitude of the landscape exists for all of us, not him, not any single specific person.
Second, we all have freedoms, but those freedoms are restricted when their exercise harms others. The right for me to wave my arms ends before I hit someone’s face, right?
People who blast their music are destroying the silence for everyone. They are doing temporary damage to the environment. They make it difficult or impossible for others to enjoy the experience they came for.

Has it occurred to you or the person who asked this question, that perhaps hikers were blasting music because they were in an area inhabited by bears or other animals? Blasting music is a great way to make your presence known to others who live there. especially other animals who will tear you apart when surprised or when they feel threatened.

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Last spring, among the usual elementary school reminders about theme weeks and illicit peanut butter snacks (WE ARE A NUT FREE CAMPUS!!)听an email popped up that gave me pause. My kindergartner would be weighed in school, it said, and I could click on a link to opt her out.

It gave me the ick. I鈥檇 paid attention to young women like Mary Cain听and members of college cross-country teams speaking out against weigh-ins and body shaming in sport, and how the practice damaged their mental and physical health. That鈥檚 different from a kindergartner stepping on a scale then running back to recess, but I know how little minds absorb everything. I didn鈥檛 want my daughter to think her school cared about her weight.

Neither, it turns out, did our home state. In January 2022, California鈥檚 Department of Education suspended the body mass index reporting听it had required since 1996 as part of a fitness test. (BMI, calculated from height and weight, is often used as a proxy for body fat composition.) The state also axed collecting several movement-based measurements that, along with gender, height, and age, had been used to give kids 鈥渇itness report cards,鈥� citing concerns about mental health, accessibility, and gender equity. Every measure, except overall participation rates, was put on hold pending the outcome of a large study the state commissioned to explore potential best practices for school fitness testing.

Then, in March 2023, the California Department of Education dropped a skewering school fitness testing as it鈥檚 been conducted for the past 25 years. In the report, experts in fitness, adaptive physical education, body image, and gender identity rejected the nation鈥檚 leading fitness evaluation. And so California became the first state to seek an answer to a simple and important question: What is the point of fitness testing?

Today, more than 10 million kids in over 20,000 schools across the U.S. take a test called annually. It鈥檚 been California鈥檚 official assessment since 1996. It鈥檚 also used in New York City, the country鈥檚 largest school district, and it鈥檚 the official assessment of the Presidential Youth Fitness Program, the current iteration of more than six decades of federal initiatives targeting youth fitness.

Created by the Cooper Institute, a Dallas-based health nonprofit, the test is made up of various activities like a one-mile run, pushups, and the sit-and-reach to determine muscular strength, endurance, and flexibility, and aerobic capacity. There鈥檚 also a weigh-in component to measure body composition through BMI, and it is this measurement, in particular, that鈥檚 most often used to shape public policy, influencing everything from city-wide free school lunch programs to the length and number of movement breaks kids get throughout the school day.

The main idea behind the testing, says Dr. Weimo Zhu, who is on the advisory board for Fitnessgram, is 鈥渨hat you measure is what you get.鈥� Fitnessgram benchmarks, called 鈥淗ealthy Fitness Zones,鈥� are national standards set by age and gender, and are meant to inspire kids to be active.

鈥淭he standard 颈蝉苍鈥檛 to punish the kids,鈥� Zhu says. It鈥檚 to tell them if they need to take action to improve their health and fitness. Without it, he argues, kids won鈥檛 know the goal behind being fit, implying that maintaining a certain BMI range, strength, aerobic capacity, and range of motion, is the goal.

But in the decades since Fitnessgram was first implemented, the scientific understanding of BMI鈥檚 relationship to health has progressed, and American culture has changed. Instead of physical measurement, many educators and politicians have become more concerned with inclusivity and kids鈥� mental health. 鈥淲e鈥檙e focused on making sure schools are safe and inclusive for all kids,鈥� says Cheryl Cotton, California鈥檚 deputy superintendent of public instruction.

Cotton also noted that the final concern triggering California鈥檚 legislative report involved BMI, school weigh-ins, and mental health. 鈥淎 lot of researchers at universities across the state and the nation were really digging into the issue of body shaming.鈥� Those factors put fitness testing in California legislators鈥� crosshairs.

Fitnessgram standards, the lawmakers believe, aren鈥檛 inclusive. The Cooper Institute is in the process of incorporating the Brockport Fitness Assessment, the most widely used fitness assessment for kids with disabilities, into its evaluation. But as of November 2023, the Fitnessgram test provided no benchmarks for those students. The test defines different Healthy Fitness Zones for girls and boys, but not for nonbinary kids, an issue that catalyzed California鈥檚 study after the state passed the Gender Recognition Act in 2017, allowing residents to identify as nonbinary on state documents. (New York enacted a similar law in 2021.)

In 2018, California asked The Cooper Institute to provide performance standards for nonbinary students, and the Institute partially complied. 鈥淲ith a push, Fitnessgram added a nonbinary option,鈥� Cotton says, but it wasn鈥檛 equitable. Students who chose nonbinary would get a personal score, but couldn鈥檛 be included in annual reporting because the Institute wouldn鈥檛 create nonbinary benchmarks. Instead, the Institute published a position statement from their advisory board asserting that results are most accurate using sex at birth, though teachers or parents could decide which gender identity would be most appropriate. (When reached for comment, Fitnessgram shared a statement with 国产吃瓜黑料 reiterating this position.)

In 2005, a landmark report听titled Preventing Childhood Obesity was published. It was commissioned by the federal government and edited by a former CDC director; the report has been credited with launching听annual student BMI assessments nationwide.

Around the report鈥檚 debut, the language surrounding national interest in kids鈥� fitness听shifted. It already had morphed in the seventies from concerns about military preparedness toward general health and disease prevention. But now, in a rejiggering of combat jargon, fitness was becoming a weapon in a war on obesity.

Instead of fighting foes abroad, school health and fitness programs would prepare kids to tackle fatness, the 鈥�,鈥� as it鈥檚 been dubbed in studies and scientific papers. BMI became public health鈥檚 favored metric used to do things like monitor and adjust kids鈥� health and fitness programs across the country.

The state of New York has the nation鈥檚 most robust BMI monitoring program, which was created in 2007 and operates through a partnership between the school system and the state鈥檚 public health department. State law requires that 50 percent of all public schools in New York conduct surveys annually. New York City runs its own BMI monitoring program, separate from the state鈥檚, using Fitnessgram BMI data.

Around the same time, several states including Massachusetts, Texas, West Virginia, Florida, Maine, Arkansas, New Mexico, Pennsylvania, and Georgia, also passed laws requiring BMI recording in schools. Other states gather childhood obesity information via phone or mail surveys听or through local health programs, such as those . Or they rely on for a glimpse into youth obesity trends.

But in recent years, scientists have found substantial evidence that children鈥檚 BMI is a poor predictor of future health鈥攁nd even of current . 鈥淓ven in the 鈥榦verweight鈥� category, it鈥檚 not necessarily predictive of poor metabolic health,鈥� says Dr. Hannah Thompson, an animated Berkeley professor who explores how youth physical activity can improve health. 鈥淐ardiovascular fitness is.”

Kids are naturally intuitive eaters, and 鈥渨e disrupt that with messaging that weight equals health,鈥� says Alisa Dodds, a registered dietitian and senior lecturer at Loyola Marymount University. Forming strong social connections, regular movement, and eating a variety of foods, she says, are behaviors associated with positive long-term health outcomes. 鈥淲eight is not a behavior.鈥�

It鈥檚 also not linked to , nor has measuring BMI over the past two decades . (At best, it鈥檚 at which child obesity is increasing.) Weight is highly correlated with genetics and socio-economic status, two things kids have no control over.

Meanwhile, kids鈥� mental health has emerged as a primary concern, a crisis the pandemic exacerbated and that social media can fuel. In 2021, the American Academy of Pediatrics declared kids鈥� mental health a national emergency, noting that suicide is the second leading cause of death for youth ages 10 to 14. As of 2020, guns, cars, and drug overdoses are the top three leading causes of death听in kids under 20, with heart disease and chronic respiratory disease鈥攖wo issues often brought up in relation to high BMI鈥攊n eighth and tenth places.

Perhaps unsurprisingly, the very act of weighing kids in school can harm their mental health. Thompson served as an expert panelist in the California study and also as a researcher on a 2021 study, published in JAMA Pediatrics, that found that elementary and middle school students who had been weighed in school were less satisfied with their bodies than those who hadn鈥檛 been weighed. It鈥檚 another point in a spate of recent studies challenging BMI鈥檚 relevance to overall health.

Exercise is part of the solution for improving mental health. In some cases, it can be at treating depression, and it鈥檚 a powerful . Daily exercise is , memory, and concentration. There are many compelling reasons besides body size to justify school fitness programs. Nevertheless, Fitnessgram published in 2020, doubling down on body composition as a vital metric, even as California鈥檚 researchers and legislators were questioning its utility.

鈥淧E is not supposed to impact BMI,鈥� says Thompson. 鈥淭he whole idea of physical education鈥攁part from recess or other physical activity opportunities鈥攊s to help younger students build the foundation and skills to go on and be active later in life.鈥�

My kindergartner wasn鈥檛, in fact, going to be weighed in school as part of state fitness testing, but for our local health department. It鈥檚 used BMI since 2007 to track the effectiveness of several school-based health initiatives, including a garden and nutrition program, and morning exercises. I met with administrators to ask them to stop the weigh-ins, showing them that our state had suspended BMI reporting鈥攁nd every other metric associated with Fitnessgram testing鈥攐ut of concern for kids鈥� mental health, pending the results of the legislative report. They were open to using a different metric to guide their programming. But they couldn鈥檛 think of one.

Every expert I talked to, from epidemiologists to physical education teachers, is in favor of some form of fitness testing, because they use the metrics to design programs, evaluate their efficacy, identify areas of need, and track student progress. Public health departments run on metrics. Fitness tests are, 鈥渇or lots of states, the only source of state-wide data we have on youth health,鈥� Thompson says.

BMI data from Fitnessgram testing in New York City allowed researchers to link socioeconomic status with weight. Fitnessgram data also has helped researchers see that kids鈥� aerobic fitness tends to decline from lower school to high school. And when physical education programs stop testing, says Fran Meyer, executive director of the Society of State Leaders of Health and Physical Education, teachers and administrators can lose accountability for ensuring kids get that active time. 鈥淭he focus on fitness diminishes,鈥� she says, when progress can鈥檛 be measured.

But when the goal of physical education is to instill a lifelong love of movement, progress 颈蝉苍鈥檛 just physical. It鈥檚 not a math test, with a clear right, wrong, and class average. Test design must be sensitive to the fact that a kid鈥檚 body exists at the intersection of many factors, including culture, genetics, mental health, and socioeconomic status. Not every kid is motivated by comparison. Not every kid has the same opportunities for safe movement outside of school, or easy access to nature and whole foods.

So, California set out to reassess the point of physical education and school fitness programs. Only then could the state identify appropriate measurements for its students, ones that take into consideration the complex nature of health and the varied resources available to individual children.

Fitnessgram鈥檚 advisory board believes it鈥檚 put together the most accurate, comprehensive measurement of student fitness in a way that鈥檚 simple enough for schools to execute routinely. The California report, however, calls for measuring individual performance over time rather than comparing results against national standards. It also proposes eliminating BMI in favor of objective measures of aerobic capacity and cardiovascular fitness.

鈥淐ardiorespiratory fitness is far more predictive of mortality than BMI,鈥� Thompson says, though she couldn鈥檛 immediately come up with a simple way to gauge it. And simplicity is key when assessing thousands of wiggly kids.

Expert panelists cited in the California report suggested using wearable devices, like a FitBit, to more directly measure cardiovascular fitness, like VO2 max (the maximum amount of oxygen your body can use during exercise). Wearables can also approximate allostatic load, the amount of chronic stress in the body, through heart rate variability, the variation in the time interval between heartbeats. These metrics are not all perfectly inclusive, and take more time to gather BMI, but they鈥檙e a promising start.

鈥淗ealth interventions can be done without using weight-loss as a goal,鈥� Dobbs says. 鈥淚t鈥檚 about being aligned with health-promoting behaviors versus a number on the scale.鈥�

New York City is considering cutting their BMI program鈥攖he most comprehensive in the country鈥攅ntirely, Thompson says. The move would signal that health officials are ready to move on to something different, though that may not听happen soon. 鈥淲e are always reviewing our processes to determine whether they are the best way to assess and promote student health, which is what we鈥檙e doing now,鈥� a representative from New York City鈥檚 Department of Health and Mental Hygiene wrote in an email.

In California, legislators will review the fitness testing report and decide if they鈥檒l move forward with recommendations, like allotting money toward developing the state鈥檚 own accessible and equitable test. 鈥淎ll of this work ties into that inclusive conversation, not just around physical fitness testing,鈥� Cotton says, 鈥渂ut around our curriculum, and making sure our teachers understand our kids and have evidence-based strategies to really support them.鈥�

Meanwhile, Fitnesgram鈥檚 12-member advisory board continues to meet annually in an effort to improve the assessment, an act that shows measurement is not static. Fitnessgram can change. What metrics will reign supreme in the next chapter of kids鈥� fitness 颈蝉苍鈥檛 yet clear.

鈥淚t鈥檚 a huge challenge,鈥� Dr. Weimo Zhu听says, of motivating kids to become lifelong lovers of fitness鈥攁nd of finding the metrics that best promote that journey. 鈥淲e鈥檒l keep working on it.鈥�

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