Soft shell jackets such as the Patagonia Mixmaster ($299; www.patagonia.com) have a lot going for them. They聮re nearly impervious to wind, shed light rain and snow, breathe well, and offer a much wider comfort range than a traditional shell-over-insulation layering approach.
Patagonia Down Patrol Jacket

The Mixmaster is one of the warmer soft shells out there. Its outer fabric is Polartec Power Shield, which I think is the best soft shell fabric. That is bonded to a wicking layer of Polartec Power Dry. Then the whole thing gets Patagonia聮s very good Deluge water-repellent coating. Its cut is athletic, and the full hood keeps your head warm if need be. REI聮s One jacket ($199; www.rei.com) is similar, minus the hood and with a warm polyester velour lining.
Salomon does several interesting things on the soft shell front, including the 3 Mixer Jacket ($279; www.salomonsports.com), which combines breathable soft shell panels with more traditional hard shell fabric.
That said, keep in mind that soft shells are built for people involved in aerobic activities聴biking, climbing, downhill or XC skiing (especially the latter), things like that. They tend not be super-warm if you聮re moseying around town or sitting in a football stadium. The Mixmaster, for instance, may be the warmest soft shell made, but it still wouldn聮t be my first choice as a straight insulating piece. For that聮d I聮d go with a down parka such as Patagonia聮s Down Patrol Jacket ($285) or L.L. Bean聮s Primaloft-insulated Penobscot Parka ($129; www.llbean.com). Both have that outdoorsy-but-not-too-woodsy look that I think is great for bopping around town.
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