A two-week canoe trip in northern Minnesota changed the trajectory of Natalie Warren鈥檚 life when she was 15 years old. From that pivotal point onward, she bucked the norm of her urban Miami upbringing to chase a life outdoors. More than听two decades later, Warren, 32, is听recognized as one of the most accomplished adventure paddlers in the U.S.听She鈥檚 canoed 2,000 miles from Minneapolis to Hudson Bay, paddled the entire length of the Mississippi River, carried out 30-听and 50-day river expeditions in Canada, and paddled 450 miles in 53 hours to win first place in the Yukon River Quest. As a new mother, a听Ph.D.听student of environmental communication at the University of Minnesota,听the founder of Wild River Academy, a nonprofit that teaches urban youth about rivers, and the author of the adventure memoir , Warren is spreading the gospel of outdoor adventure for teenage girls who feel like they don鈥檛 fit in.听
In 2005, Warren was burned out by daily three-hour saxophone practices and other rigors of attending an arts high school when a friend suggested YMCA Camp Menogyn, near Grand Marais, Minnesota. Despite having no听prior relationship to the outdoors, after her听first river trip with the camp, in which she spent听every day paddling and every night sleeping outside, she was听hooked on outdoor adventure. At that听formative time in her life, she had finally emerged from what she calls the 鈥渂lur of living in a large urban area that had a certain ideology and tastes for material things that I听never identified with.鈥 Living outdoors, moving slowly, observing everything around her with time to digest it, connecting with her boat partner鈥攖hese aspects of canoe life helped shape听Warren鈥檚 perceptions of the world.
She found her people, her place, and her own voice in the outdoors and on the water, which eventually provided the backdrop for the rest of her life. Now Warren鈥檚 goal is to encourage teenage girls to think critically about what they actually want in life鈥攁nd how scheming adventures can help them get it. Here are four pieces of advice for teen girls ready to embrace adventure.
Fight for What You Want
鈥淲e鈥檙e constantly told all of these milestones that we鈥檙e supposed to have,鈥 Warren says. 鈥淎 lot of us sit back and we鈥檙e like, That鈥檚 not what we want.听How do we fit into a culture that鈥檚 telling us what we鈥檙e supposed to be doing when we鈥檙e not even sure that will make us feel fulfilled? You鈥檙e told听you can鈥檛 ever hop off the tracks听because you can make one decision that will derail your potential for future marriage, job, kids, success, and retirement.鈥澨
鈥淚 really fought for what I felt like I needed,鈥 she says. 鈥淔or me听it was following a feeling of what I was supposed to be doing at the time. I couldn鈥檛 rationalize it. The surge of emotion when we鈥檙e teenagers or early twenties can be a really, really powerful force in directing us where we want to go.鈥
Forge Your Own Path
鈥淚nstead of getting an unpaid internship in the summer after听college, I canoed for three months. I thought that would literally ruin my career, because an internship听is what I was told I needed to do to be successful. I want teenage girls to think more critically about the messages that they鈥檙e receiving, whether they鈥檙e subtle or obvious, to be able to say, 鈥業 can do something different.鈥 Start to think, like, Oh, land is connected. I wonder if I could walk across the country? Water is connected. I wonder if I can sail across the ocean?鈥
鈥淲ilderness trips, and canoe trips in particular, are about听getting into a flow of everybody working together,鈥 she says. 鈥淲e all need each other. We all serve different roles. We鈥檙e trying to get from point A to point B. What are we going to eat? What is the weather like? And how do we solve problems together? That just strips away all of the added pressures and layers of what we鈥檙e supposed to look like, how we鈥檙e supposed to respond to certain things.鈥
Have the Courage to Take a Big Trip
鈥淚t鈥檚 important to听explore all the different pathways in life,鈥 Warren says. 鈥淚 stand out so much more because I lived in a canoe for six months. It provides fodder for interviews. It鈥檚 group work. It鈥檚 not a hole in your r茅sum茅听at all. It鈥檚 actually something that could make you stand out and could become your career in many ways. Without feeling like we鈥檙e safe to take those risks, we often forego the possibilities that those trips can provide for us.鈥澨
Find Your Place in the Outdoors听
鈥淲hat I found in that first trip especially was that I felt really confident in the outdoors. I sort of discovered what made me feel the most me when I was at that age, when high school was traumatic. I had a lot of teen angst, and when I was in the outdoors, when I was paddling a canoe, when I was living in the wilderness, I felt a sense of peace and belonging that I had just never found in the city,鈥 Warren says.
鈥淚 have already introduced my daughter听to just being outdoors and being by water, telling her stories and reading books about women doing adventures,鈥 she says. 鈥淚鈥檇 really love to be able to support her in taking those risks, especially at a young age, without feeling like if she stepped off the track, she would lose her future. When we step off the track, we get on another track that can be so much better.鈥