There鈥檚 something about being a new dad that seems to rewire the brain.聽
That鈥檚 not just a figure of speech, but a hormonal reality. 聽the amount of testosterone present in the blood declines after men have children鈥攂y up to 34 percent鈥攁nd聽may never聽bounce back to pre-baby levels. The cause: less sleep, increased stress, poorer diet, and less exercise.聽But is the sharp drop in the muscle-building hormone really enough to impact athletic performance?
Not exactly.聽聽In fact, it can even improve鈥攊f you can manage to keep up your training, says聽Lee T. Gettler is an assistant anthropology professor at the University of Notre Dame and director of the Hormones, Health, and Human Behavior Lab. He鈥檚 also the author of聽聽to show that fatherhood actually lowers testosterone (rather than merely proving correlation).聽Gettler referred to research by his colleague in a traditional farming community in Poland. Alvarado showed that new fathers have lower testosterone levels than non-fathers of the same age, but surprisingly, are also stronger and more muscular. Gettler thinks this is due to their more physically demanding jobs, meaning training is a bigger factor than baseline testosterone levels.
鈥淚nvested dads who experience a drop in T are not necessarily going to lose muscle and strength,鈥 Gettler writes鈥攁s long as they keep training.
So what鈥檚 the best attack strategy for a new father-athlete?
Do Whatever it Takes to Sleep
First, find a way to sleep. International fitness model, training and nutrition coach, and dad of a 2.5-year old, Melih F. Cologlu, says he began taking a 20-minute power nap mid day to compensate for less sleep at night. Eventually he worked his way back to 7.5 hours.聽

Eat Well
Second, take care of your diet. During the weeks after my wife gave birth, my diet switched to what I would call a French toast based model. Cologlu says that kind of pattern is common among his training clients, both during and after a pregnancy. He counsels good quality but low prep food like raw vegetables or pre-prepped healthy meals, reduced fat peanut butter and rice cakes, or spiced tilapia with steamed broccoli.
Train All the Way Up to Birth
Finally, ramp up your training a month or two before the birth. If you get mentally accustomed to a seven days-a-week training rhythm, you鈥檒l find that dropping a day or two feels like slacking without hurting your health.
鈥淚 usually don鈥檛 take off any days,鈥 Cologlu says. 鈥淸So] if I have to take a day or two that鈥檚 still five or six times a week.鈥
Focus on Your Marriage
One surprising final tip is to put your marriage ahead of your children, if you鈥檙e married. Gettler found that married men (fathers or not) have lower cortisol levels鈥a hormone normally produced in response to stress that can hurt your metabolism and muscle mass鈥攖han non-fathers. Cologlu says that after an initial adaptation period, he鈥檚 doing better than he was before he had kids.
鈥淚鈥檝e improved, my business has gotten better, I have some type of published work every two to three months,鈥 Cologlu says. 鈥淚t鈥檚 been going great.鈥