This month, following an extraordinarily rough stretch of current events鈥攈urricanes, mass shootings, wildfires, , global instability鈥攁 close friend, normally a happy and upbeat guy, called to tell me he was down, stuck in a rut. I told him I felt the same and that I doubted we were alone. It seems like lots of people are having similar calls and feeling a similar way. The question is what to do about it.
During trying times, self-care can seem self-indulgent. Amid so much tragedy, the thought of going for a hike or run鈥攁nd, god forbid, enjoying it鈥攆eels a bit off, perhaps even wrong. And yet constantly being down doesn鈥檛 do anyone any good. 鈥淲hen you鈥檙e overwhelmed with sadness or angst, you鈥檙e unlikely to take productive action to make the situation better,鈥 says , a clinical psychologist who specializes in treating depression in athletes. 鈥淎nd then, of course, being depressed or dysfunctional in and of itself isn鈥檛 a desirable state. Being in a dark place sucks. If you don鈥檛 do something to disrupt the cycle, you end up feeling helpless.鈥
This doesn鈥檛 mean you should put your head in the sand and completely ignore all that is wrong with the world. But it doesn鈥檛 mean you need to feel depressed. If anything, when you take care of your own mental health, you and are better able to take care of others and your community. Even if it feels like you need to force yourself to follow the advice below鈥攁nd it might鈥攜ou鈥檒l almost always feel better for doing so.
Move Your Body
There is a large and growing body of evidence that exercise can alleviate or altogether eliminate the symptoms of and . 鈥淔or most people, exercise is as powerful as prescription medications,鈥 says John Ratey, associate clinical professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and author of . Though all movement is beneficial, Ratey says aerobic exercise鈥攕ports like running, hiking, cycling, swimming, or even just a fast-paced walk鈥攈as the most positive effect on mood. 鈥淚f people do at least 30 minutes of aerobic physical activity at about 70 to 75 percent of their maximum effort, four to five times per week,鈥 says Ratey, they stand of effectively countering even more moderate bouts of depression.
Change Your Environment
Sometimes getting unstuck from a bad mental space can be as simple as changing your physical space. 鈥淚t鈥檚 pretty amazing how getting out the door can completely shift your state of mind, especially if you鈥檙e feeling sad or apathetic,鈥 says Keim. If you find yourself lethargically sinking into the couch or in a funk at the office, force yourself to go to a coffee shop, run some errands, or head out for a walk.
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Our species didn鈥檛 evolve to live in fast-paced, 鈥渁lways on鈥 urban environments. And we certainly didn鈥檛 evolve to watch overly dramatic and fearmongering cable news. According to the , made popular by Harvard entomologist E.O. Wilson, we evolved to be in nature. Researchers speculate that when we鈥檙e in nature, our fight-or-flight stress response subsides in favor of a calmer state. in Japan have found that 鈥渇orest walks,鈥 or leisurely strolls through green spaces, reduce stress hormones, diminish nervous system activity, and decrease blood pressure and heart rate. Other from Stanford University found that nature walks are far more effective than urban walks at reducing the sensations of anxiety鈥攁nd neural activity in the part of the brain associated with it. Though there is no specific recommended dose, from Finland suggests you should aim to spend at least five hours in nature every month. For a more acute bout of sadness or angst, try taking a day hike or spending a night camping.
Interact with Other Humans鈥擨n Real Life
鈥淐ommunity is key,鈥 says Keim. Though the last thing you may want to do when you鈥檙e feeling crappy is hang out with others, it鈥檚 almost always one of the best things you can do. You may be connected to tons of people online, . Research in the journal Physiology and Behavior found that interacting with friends in a relaxed environment lowers the stress hormone cortisol. Keim believes that social connection also helps shift your nervous system into a more relaxed state.
Log Off
Social media can be a great place to meet people and exchange ideas, but it can also be an echo chamber of negativity. If you feel like your social feed (or the internet more broadly) is a physical manifestation of rumination, the best thing you can do is take a break. 鈥淕o on an internet fast,鈥 advises Keim. 鈥淕ive yourself 24 to 48 hours where you don鈥檛 engage in any of it, and when you come back, be more mindful and intentional about who you follow and what sites you traffic.鈥
Seek Professional Help
There鈥檚 a big difference between transitory and mild depression or angst and the more consistent, all-consuming variety. If self-treatment doesn鈥檛 work, don鈥檛 just live with it. Get help. (And if you鈥檙e thinking about hurting yourself, please call the at 1-800-273-8255, or .) As someone who has experienced debilitating general anxiety and benefited greatly from professional help, I think the fact that mental health is still stigmatized is utter bullshit. (I literally and still have experienced uncontrollable and unexplainable anxiety.) If you鈥檙e struggling to the point where you don鈥檛 feel at all like yourself, and it鈥檚 affecting your day-to-day life, and you鈥檙e not getting better, one of the strongest things you can do is ask for help. You wouldn鈥檛 think twice about going to the doctor for a broken leg. Treat your mind the same way.
Brad Stulberg () writes 国产吃瓜黑料鈥檚 Science of Performance column and is author of the new book .