David Goggins鈥檚 new memoir, , is written in part as a self-help manual, but the opening line delivers some uncommonly blunt advice for a genre better known for telling us we just need to learn to love ourselves: 鈥淵ou are in danger of living a life so comfortable and soft that you will die without ever realizing your true potential.鈥 It鈥檚 an apt summation of Goggins鈥檚 worldview. The retired Navy SEAL has spent the past two decades exploring the outer limits of human performance, both as an elite Special Operations member and an accomplished ultra-endurance athlete. But earning that r茅sum茅 required overcoming an abusive childhood, a murder in the family, rampant racism in his small Indiana hometown, a learning disability, obesity, and more鈥攁 catalog of obstacles that might sound comically overstuffed if it weren鈥檛 all true. To survive, Goggins found strength in regularly putting himself through hell鈥攍iterally, if you count his three rounds of attempting the notoriously grueling SEAL Hell Week鈥攁nd believes there鈥檚 no shortcut to mental toughness. We phoned Goggins in Avalon, New Jersey, where he鈥檇 just finished his daily six-hour morning workout.
鈥淢y lifestyle, the way I do everything, it鈥檚 not for everybody. I don鈥檛 want to waste your time. I am asking people to go way within themselves to find a lot more.鈥
鈥淚 ended up self-publishing my book. I had a nice offer, $300,000. I was getting ready to sign, and I was like, You know what? If somebody were to give me $300,000 right now to relive that book, I would tell him to go to hell. So I turned it down.鈥
鈥淵ou need a good foundation to start life. My foundation was so jacked up. I had a very abusive father, and it just kind of snowballed from there. My mom鈥檚 fianc茅 was murdered. I saw a little boy get killed. I had white splotches on my skin from stress. But that鈥檚 why I don鈥檛 give anybody a get-out-of-jail-free card. I realized through my journey in life what we鈥檙e all capable of doing. We have all the tools we need inside our minds.鈥
鈥淚 didn鈥檛 go to school a lot. One reason was a learning disability that caused me to fall behind. When I was 17, my mom got a letter saying that I was about to flunk out. I had to come clean. I went to the mirror in the bathroom and looked at myself and saw I was a clown. I saw my future, and it wasn鈥檛 pretty. I was talking to myself out loud. A million cuss words. I believe that in order to find peace, you must be willing to go to war with yourself.鈥
鈥淚 was 23 years old when I got out of the Air Force. I went from 175 pounds to 297. I got a job as an exterminator. I鈥檓 43 now, and it would have been very easy for me to still be 300 pounds and spraying for cockroaches, having never known what was inside myself. I think that鈥檚 the scariest thing.鈥
鈥淚 got pneumonia the first time I went through SEAL training. The second time through, I fractured my patella right before Hell Week. And I went two more weeks with that broken kneecap. Jesus. That鈥檚 when I realized my body is able to handle much more than I thought was humanly possible. My mind was shackling me.鈥
You can have everything you want in life, but when you quit something that is meaningful to you, you will be haunted by it.
鈥Mindset is the great equalizer. I came from nothing special. What was different about me was that I wanted to figure myself out.鈥
鈥淵ou can have everything you want in life, but when you quit something that is meaningful to you, you will be haunted by it. You will try to fill that void with every颅thing鈥攔unning races, material possessions, whatever. You can never fill the void.鈥
鈥A lot of people have reasons why they can鈥檛. Whether you鈥檙e black, white, purple鈥攊t doesn鈥檛 matter. So I tell everybody my story. It is very humbling for me to talk about how dumb I was, how bad I stuttered, how insecure I was, how fat I was, but it makes people say, 鈥榃ell shit, man, I have no excuse.鈥 鈥
鈥淚 don鈥檛 believe in all these quick fixes. I believe in the permanent fix.鈥
鈥淚 called ultramarathon organizer Chris Kostman up on a Wednesday. I tried to get in based on my SEAL experience, but Chris wasn鈥檛 hearing that. I hadn鈥檛 run more than 20 miles in over a year. He told me, 鈥楾here are two qualifying races left, and one鈥檚 on Saturday.鈥 So I had three and a half days to get ready for a 24-hour race. This was in 2005. Now I鈥檝e done more than 60 ultras, but that was still the worst pain I鈥檝e gone through in my entire life.鈥
鈥淟ife is not friendly. Life is not you always being happy. You have to get the tactical advantage early in the morning, which means get up, go for a run, go to the gym, do something that prepares your mind. You want to start off your morning winning.鈥
鈥淢y daily routine is: I run, I go to the gym, and I stretch for about two, three hours. I鈥檝e missed two days in the past six years.鈥
鈥I鈥檓 not big on people who are good at multitasking. I鈥檓 really big on people who are able to focus on the task at hand.鈥
鈥Motivation聽is crap. Because once you鈥檙e in an extreme situation, motivation goes away. Right now it鈥檚 69 degrees outside, it鈥檚 sunny, with a little bit of wind. I鈥檝e got a nice TV in front of me. If you were to watch a motivational video in this environment, boy, you鈥檙e going to think you鈥檙e a badass. You鈥檙e motivated now. But what happens when you get out of this nice environment? Life has to be damn near perfect for you to be motivated all the time. But if you鈥檙e driven, I guarantee you will find a way.鈥
鈥I wish there was a different word besides discipline. Discipline sounds too easy.鈥