Scroll through Twitter or take a look at trending articles, and it鈥檚 clear that people鈥檚 feelings about food and body image are all over the place right now. The age-old 鈥溾澛爅oke is reaching new heights. 聽has been trending on and off for weeks. The headlines about healthy cooking and at-home exercise range from 听迟辞 听迟辞 .听
I get it鈥攚e鈥檙e all looking for things to bond over right now, and body insecurities are, unfortunately, fairly聽universal. Anxieties are running high, and eating聽is a common response to stress. It鈥檚 natural to be聽a little concerned about how things might change if you can鈥檛 stick to聽routines. But frankly, all this fearmongering聽around food and quarantine weight gain is聽unhelpful bullshit, and it鈥檚 not something you need to buy into.
That鈥檚 not to say you鈥檙e bad for being worried about these things. We live in a fat-phobic culture that pushes all kinds of food and exercise rules聽on us, whether we realize it or not. But instead of beating yourself up about (very understandable) changes in your routine, consider using聽this time to establish a better relationship with food and your body by loosening the reins.听
Comfort Food Is Your Friend
If you鈥檝e been gravitating toward聽certain comfort foods and eating more than usual, that鈥檚 normal. 鈥淎 lot of us use familiar coping mechanisms, such as eating, to help deal with anxiety,鈥 says , a registered dietitian who specializes in intuitive eating. 鈥淭hese times are unprecedented, so we turn to what feels safe.鈥 Eating familiar food can bring some normalcy to a time that is decidedly not normal.听
We use food as a source of comfort for several reasons. First, there鈥檚 that highly palatable foods temporarily activate聽pleasure centers in our brains. Second, food is accessible. Therapy and expensive self-care habits are financially out of reach for many, and some inexpensive coping mechanisms鈥攃ertain forms of exercise, time with friends and family, normal daily routines鈥攎ay be聽off the table for聽now.听
Catalano鈥檚 advice? 鈥淟et it be comforting. Let it be joyful. Let it be satisfying and nourishing.鈥 As this quarantine progresses,聽you鈥檒l develop new routines and other strategies for managing anxiety, she says, and you鈥檒l probably start relying on food less.
Diets Usually聽Backfire
When you鈥檙e feeling insecure or anxious, dieting might seem like a great way to regain some control. 鈥淚t gives you a purpose,鈥 Catalano says. 鈥淚t gives you a plan that is supposedly going to change your whole life.鈥
The problem? Diets don鈥檛 produce lasting results. A in the journal聽Social and Personality Psychology Compass looked聽at existing weight-loss studies and found that virtually all dieters abandoned their diets and regained lost weight within five years. Likewise, an 聽published in looked at 121 clinical trials studying different diets聽and found that while most produced weight loss and improved heart health at the six-month mark, none led to significant weight loss or health benefits at the 12-month mark.听
Instead of changing your life for the better, restriction typically leads to overeating. 鈥淭he more you obsess about what you鈥檙e eating or how much you鈥檙e eating, the more [you鈥檙e going to want to eat],鈥 Catalano says.听If you have a complicated history with dieting or聽food, you may feel especially out of control right now鈥攂oredom and stress could be the immediate trigger for overeating, but long-term restrictive patterns聽are聽the root cause.
Remind yourself that food isn鈥檛 the reason you鈥檙e feeling so uneasy right now. 鈥淭he food is not the problem,鈥 Catalano says. 鈥淭he anxiety and the emotions are the problem; the food and the eating are the symptoms.鈥
Eat Intuitively
It might feel scary to give yourself permission to eat whatever you want, but it鈥檚 the right choice. 鈥淓ating enough is the best way to support ourselves during a time like this,鈥 says Heather Caplan, registered dietitian and host of the podcast聽. 鈥淪tressing about whether your meals are healthy enough聽or macros are balanced聽or calories are in check聽may feel safe, but it鈥檚 not actually improving your health.鈥 And don鈥檛 fall prey to any headline or company trying to sell聽you an immunity-boosting food or diet鈥攏o single food has the power to do that.
Move Along
You鈥檙e probably moving less right now, which can be challenging if regular exercise is important to you. There鈥檚 nothing like being bombarded with existential dread and having聽nowhere to channel that energy. But you can still use physical activity as a way to deal with overwhelming emotions. 鈥淭ry to incorporate movement into your day, instead of just structured exercise,鈥 says Caplan, who works with athletes and is a runner herself. 鈥淲e can absolutely use movement like聽walking, running, yoga, dancing, or even a virtual fitness class听迟辞 help cope with stress and anxiety. Let it be a coping mechanism without also being a way to try and manipulate your body.鈥
鈥淵ou don鈥檛 have to be following a training plan or hitting a certain mileage every week to stay healthy,鈥 Caplan says. In fact, a few weeks or months off from聽intense exercise can be a good thing, especially for people who are used to rigorous workout regimens. 鈥淚t will give your body time to relax and transition into a rest and recovery phase,鈥 says 聽a certified strength and conditioning specialist and founder of New Jersey鈥揵ased .听鈥淵ou may start to detrain a bit within two to three weeks, but聽we have this wonderful thing called muscle memory. Once you get back to your regular routine, you鈥檒l be pleasantly surprised how quickly your prior fitness level comes back, especially if you were very fit to begin with.鈥澛
If you鈥檙e feeling really uncomfortable about scaling back, now is a great time to examine your relationship to exercise. Caplan recommends getting curious about why you want to move: 鈥淚s the desire to walk or run triggered by a bad body image moment? Is it to 鈥榖urn calories鈥? Is it because you鈥檙e worried about weight gain?鈥 Those are signs that you鈥檙e using exercise as a way to control your body, which can be stressful and unhealthy.听
Put It into聽Perspective
At this point, you might be thinking: 鈥淥K, fine, but won鈥檛 all of this make me gain weight?鈥 That鈥檚 a fair question, and the answer is: maybe. But try to remember that all of聽this聽is temporary鈥攐nce you get back to a more typical routine, your body will likely also return to whatever a typical weight is for you. Although there鈥檚 a lot we don鈥檛 yet understand about weight 鈥渟et points,鈥 research indicates that your body will fight significant loss or gain in order to maintain a certain weight, and small fluctuations聽are normal, Catalano explains.听
鈥淕aining weight during this period, I want to be super clear, is not a problem,鈥 Catalano says. 鈥淚f the worst thing that happens to you from this is that you gain a few pounds, then consider yourself lucky. Everyone鈥檚 routines, everyone鈥檚 habits, everyone鈥檚 quality of life is drastically changing right now.鈥
And if you do gain more weight than you鈥檙e comfortable with,聽that doesn鈥檛 necessarily mean you鈥檒l be less healthy. 鈥淲eight changes may be an indication of disease, but weight alone isn鈥檛 a reliable measure of health,鈥 Caplan says. A聽 in the聽American Journal of Clinical Nutrition found that 35 percent of obese subjects in several previous studies were metabolically healthy. And a聽 in the Journal of the American Medical Association looked at a total of 100,000 adults in Denmark over a period of 40 years and found that those in the overweight category had the lowest mortality rate (that is, risk of death). In other words, the relationship between weight and health is complicated聽and not perfectly understood.听
Just Do Your Best
The bottom line here is that you shouldn鈥檛 stress about what you鈥檙e eating or how much you鈥檙e exercising right now. We鈥檙e in uncharted waters with the COVID-19 pandemic and current quarantine guidelines, and it鈥檚 fine to turn to food as a source of comfort. While your exercise routine might change, you can still use movement as a way to decompress and establish some sense of normalcy. Remember that what鈥檚 happening is temporary, and trust that your body can handle it.