Looking for love online can be challenging whether your dating pool is Manhattan or Missoula. Even if you match with someone attractive who checks your boxes, there鈥檚 no guarantee you鈥檒l get past the pen-pal stage and meet up IRL鈥or that you鈥檒l be compatible if you do.
Things get even more interesting when you鈥檙e trying to find someone who shares your passion for 5 A.M. dawn patrols and multi-day sufferfests. In general, people try to present what one study called an 鈥溾 on dating apps鈥攊n other words, a version of you that is honest, but extra shiny. When you start scrolling through hundreds of users who are all curating like hell to represent their best outdoorsy selves, patterns inevitably emerge. Some make sense: the fourteener summit pic is the Denver equivalent of the standard car selfie. Others are genuinely curious: what鈥檚 up with all the photos of the women in front of ?
We consulted a group of veteran swipers to help us identify some of the most common outdoorsy types on dating apps. Our panel of experts includes a vanlifer who dates on the road, a founder of a dating app, and several regular people just trying to find love in cities like Seattle and Chattanooga and mountain towns like Silverton and Truckee. Our panelists use apps including Bumble, Tinder, Hinge, Meet Mindful, Scruff, Grindr, and Lex.
ISO that special adventure partner? Here are the characters鈥攁nd caricatures鈥攜ou鈥檙e likely to encounter.
The Yogi
The type: Photographed performing dancer pose at Machu Picchu, an inversion on a paddleboard, or a heart opener in front of a glowing alpine sunrise. Probably doesn鈥檛 eat meat. Loves a good hot- flow class! Swipe right if: you鈥檙e also living mindfully and in the moment.
From the panel: 鈥淚 definitely feel like there鈥檚 a yoga type. [scrolling] Oh yeah, see鈥攖he yoga on the stand-up paddleboard. They definitely mark听鈥榮piritual鈥 for their religion. [scrolls more] Oh wow, this chick鈥檚 actually kinda cute. [swipes right]鈥
The Transplant
The type: This person just moved to your town and wants you to 鈥淪how me around! Take me on your favorite adventures!鈥 Looking for: 鈥渇riends, activity buddies, dates!鈥 Literally anyone!
From the panel: 鈥淭hey just want a tour guide. They鈥檒l dump you in six months once they know how to drive to all the trailheads.鈥
The Fish Guy/Gal
The type: Guy holding a fish he just caught. He generally falls into one of two subcategories: the guy holding a really tiny fish from that one time he tried it (he鈥檚 open to new experiences!); and the serious fly-fisher who might be on the river in every single photo. High likelihood he鈥檚 also wearing polarized shades and a trucker hat throughout the entire collection, leaving you wondering what he actually looks like.
From the panel: 鈥淩esearch found that on our dating app鈥攁nd this was especially true for guys鈥攈aving a soft cuddly creature in your photo correlated with a higher percentage of being liked. Guys who had photos of their Saint Bernard on their hikes did better. But having a fish in your profile didn鈥檛. It seemed to be furry animals, and furry animals that you hadn鈥檛 just killed.鈥
The Pit Viper Bro/Bra
The type: These specimens wear Pit Vipers, catch air, and shotgun beers in their photos, often all at the same time. Profile says: 鈥淟ooking for someone who can keep up鈥 or 鈥淢ust be able to hang.鈥 If it鈥檚 a guy, he has a handlebar mustache. If it鈥檚 a woman, she鈥檚 wearing jorts and/or a crop top.
From the panel: 鈥淭hey鈥檙e definitely not looking for a serious relationship.鈥
The Person Who鈥檚 Already in a Relationship with Their Dog
The type: There are dog people and then there are…these people. Here she is in the car with her dog in her lap. Here he is hiking with his dog. Here鈥檚 a photo of her SUPing with a dog onboard wearing a cute PFD that makes the dog look like a shark. Oh, here鈥檚 a photo of just the dog.
From the panel: 鈥淭here鈥檚 definitely a 鈥榙og dad鈥 or 鈥榙og mom.鈥 It鈥檚 a package deal: 鈥業t鈥檚 not just me, it鈥檚 me and my dog, and that鈥檚 very important to me.鈥欌
鈥淚 love dogs, but I don鈥檛 really want to date some dog you got with your ex.鈥
The Hardcore Athlete
The type: This person is up-front about what he or she is looking for. 鈥淚 like to run so I hope you do too.鈥 鈥淚 like to climb so I hope you do too.鈥 The main profile photo is likely to include Lycra, a helmet, or a harness. A variation of this type is the Endurance Athlete: she is currently training for an Ironman or a marathon. His profile picture is a race photo that may include the line 鈥淓arly to bed, early to shred.鈥
From the panel: 鈥淚 feel like there are people where their outdoor sports are their entire personality. There was one guy on Hinge and every single prompt was about climbing. Ask me about: climbing. My deal breakers are: people who don鈥檛 climb. What I want to do with my life: climb. I matched with him, and I was like, 鈥業t seems like you鈥檙e really into climbing.鈥 And he was like, 鈥榊ep.鈥 And after that I was like, 鈥榃hat do we talk about now?鈥 And I鈥檓 a climber!鈥
The River Rat
The type: Lives in her vehicle (which is a Subaru, duh) and may have multicolored hair. Includes at least one photo of her surfing a wave and also a selfie in her PFD, smiling at the takeout. She just got the hottest old-school boat鈥攁 Siren or an Ace.
From the panel: 鈥淗er favorite thing to do on a weekend is a doubleheader on the Middle Ocoee. She might also mention when her last Grand Canyon trip was.鈥
The Mountain-Man Thirst Trap
The type: One gay panelist identified this sporty, alpine variation on the bare-chested urban bachelor often seen on apps like Grindr and Scruff. This type is identifiable by his shiny six-pack abs and perfectly manscaped pecs, which he enthusiastically flaunts in front of wild, dramatic landscapes.
From the panel: 鈥淭here are still a lot of shirtless photos. But he鈥檚 showcasing more of his activities. There鈥檚 a photo of him SUPing, a shirtless photo of him in a desert somewhere.鈥
The 国产吃瓜黑料 Girl
The type: This person is identifiable primarily by her unbridled enthusiasm: 鈥淟et鈥檚 go on an adventure!鈥 Or maybe she orders her adventure the way she orders her latte: 鈥湽怨虾诹, please.鈥 What kind of adventure, you might ask: Alpine boondoggle? Forty-eight-hour trip to Cabo? Unclear. But she loves it!
From the panel: 鈥淭his guy was telling me all the women he sees online all have the word 鈥榓dventure鈥 in their profile鈥攁nd I was like, Shit, I have that in my profile. But it鈥檚 such a good word!鈥
The Hustler
The type: He鈥檚 a musician, a sushi chef, an endurance athlete, an entrepreneur, and a world traveler. He鈥檚 attractive and has a lot of interesting photos, like that one where he鈥檚 doing tricks on his snowboard. Frankly, he鈥檚 a little intimidating. He may or may not respond, since he鈥檚 just using the app as a Plan B鈥攈e doesn鈥檛 really have any problem meeting people IRL.
From the panel: 鈥淓verything is go, go, go. The profile is like, Come along on my journey. I messaged with a guy like this and he told me, 鈥業 might not return your texts when you need me to, because I鈥檓 off the grid really unplugging all the time.鈥欌
The Peak Bagger
The type: Easily identified by the cardboard summit sign in their profile photo: 鈥淢ount Elbert: 14,440 feet.鈥 May casually mention that they鈥檝e summited Kilimanjaro or are working on their .听鈥淢ust love: early-morning wake-ups.鈥 鈥淲e won鈥檛 get along if: you like to stay up late.鈥 The Pacific Northwest variation on this type is known as The Waterfall Chaser.
From the panel: 鈥淚n Denver, every guy has a cardboard fourteener sign in his profile photo. It鈥檚 like the outdoorsy equivalent of going to brunch.鈥
The Influencer
The type: No selfies here: the influencer only has professional-quality photos. He clearly pals around with photographers, because every image is beautiful and glowy. High likelihood of a handsome, close-up laughing shot. Wants to know what it is you plan to do with your one wild and precious life. Definitely works in the outdoor industry.听
From the panel: 鈥淎ll of their pictures are way prettier than all your pictures. They probably have ten photos or more. This is the opposite of the single-gym-selfie person.鈥
The Reluctant Outdoorsperson
The type: Posts one outdoorsy photo of himself鈥攑robably hiking鈥攂ecause he lives in a mountain town and doesn鈥檛 want to be excluded from the dating pool. Will tolerate the outdoors and can go on a hike but would really rather not.
From the panel: 鈥淚鈥檝e seen women who will actually just say, 鈥業鈥檓 not outdoorsy, and I don鈥檛 want to go for a hike. Ask me on a real date.鈥 I kind of respect that, actually.鈥