鈥淏eing injured sucks,鈥 says Amelia Boone, who, after winning four consecutive obstacle-course-racing , from 2012 to 2015, suffered two successive stress fractures鈥攐ne in her聽femur and then her sacrum鈥攖hat sidelined her for all of 2016. 鈥淎 body that carried you through so much in the past is now betraying you鈥攊t鈥檚 hard to come to terms with that,鈥 she says. 鈥淚t really messes with your head.鈥澛
Injuries, by definition, are a physical affliction to the body. But聽according to聽Boone, whose toughness and grit earned her the nickname Queen of Pain,聽the psychological elements of the recovery process are often harder than the physical ones. This is the case for many athletes. 鈥淓motional recovery isn鈥檛 really linear,鈥 says , a professor of sports psychology at John F. Kennedy University in Pleasant Hill, California, who leads . 鈥淚t cycles through denial, distress, determination, and often back to denial again. There are lots of highs and lows.鈥澛
Though injured athletes work very hard on聽physical rehabilitation, most聽neglect their minds. Cheadle believes that this is a mistake, and one that sets them聽up for a more arduous recovery process and even lackluster performance once they鈥檙e healed. Fortunately, a handful of practical tactics can help athletes keep their minds right even when they鈥檙e sidelined.
Keep Your Athletic Identity聽
When , in her femur, friends and fellow racers聽suggested she work on cultivating other interests while she recovered. So she tried to remove herself from the sport as much as she could, going as far as to unfollow聽just about everyone involved in it on social media. But after a few days, she realized that isolating herself wasn鈥檛 a great聽option. 鈥淪o much of who I am is wrapped up in being an athlete in the endurance-sports community,鈥 she says. 鈥淚t was like I was telling myself a shallow lie by trying to suddenly check out.鈥澛
Boone ended up doing the opposite: she continued to immerse herself in the sport鈥攆or example, showing up at races to support others鈥攔ather than pretending it was no longer a part of who she was. As hard as it is to be on the sideline, it鈥檚 often much harder to not be there at all. 鈥淟osing your ability to do your sport is bad enough,鈥 says Cheadle. 鈥淵ou don鈥檛 need to lose your community, too.鈥
Cheadle also encourages athletes to put the energy they normally reserve for聽training and competition into recovery. 鈥淩ecovery itself becomes the sport,鈥 she says. 鈥淭his not only ensures they adhere to whatever rehabilitation process is prescribed, but it also helps them maintain their identity as an athlete.鈥澛
Focus on Joy Over Pain
Trying to deny the frustration and grief that accompanies getting hurt is a fool鈥檚 errand. But聽that doesn鈥檛 mean you can鈥檛 consciously direct your attention elsewhere. 鈥淚f you focus on the positives in your life, and give yourself permission to have some joy, it makes you realize that everything isn鈥檛 shit,鈥 explains Cheadle. It may sound a little clich茅, but it works, and Cheadle says it鈥檚 often as simple as focusing on something that makes you happy outside of sports. She also says that keeping a 聽and聽writing down three things you鈥檙e thankful for every night 鈥渃an help focus聽your attention away from your injury.鈥澛
Early on in her injury process, Boone says she caught herself starting to 鈥渟pin into this cycle of rumination that made it seem like my life was over. But then I鈥檇 step back and realize that was nuts.鈥 She began wearing a bracelet that says,聽鈥淭he struggle ends when the gratitude begins.鈥 She started to spend more time reflecting on how lucky she鈥檚 been to compete at such a high level鈥斺淲hatever happens in the future, no one can ever take my four world championships away,鈥 she says鈥攁nd began mentoring younger women in the sport. 鈥淚 realized that a lot of my emotional聽pain was self-inflicted聽and I could ease it by diverting my mental energy elsewhere,鈥 she says.
Maintain a Daily Practice
For many people, exercise functions as a feel-good drug. 鈥淲hen you鈥檙e injured, not only are you feeling down because you鈥檙e hurt , but in many cases聽you can鈥檛 do the one thing that normally makes you feel better鈥攊t鈥檚 a real double whammy,鈥 says Cheadle. She encourages athletes to do what they can to stay active鈥攚ithin the confines of their injury鈥攅ven if it means something like water aerobics or riding an exercise bike. If that isn鈥檛 an option, Cheadle says it can be helpful to adopt a mindset of 鈥渇rom obstacle to opportunity.鈥 She asks athletes: How can you use this additional time in a way that you鈥檒l feel good about?聽Injuries also present the opportunity to teach athletes not to be overly dependent on exercise. 鈥淚t鈥檚 a forced chance for athletes to round themselves out a bit, to develop other practices,鈥 Cheadle says.聽
When Boone was dealing with her stress fractures, she tried swimming and cross-training, but she also realized that she needed to give her body plenty of time and space to heal. 鈥淢ovement is such a central part of setting the tone for my day,鈥 she says, 鈥渟o it was hard to let go of that a bit.鈥 Instead, Boone took up a daily meditation practice.聽
Don鈥檛 Think About Coming Back鈥擳hink About Moving Forward
Boone is currently in the midst of returning to full-on training and competition, and her last鈥攁nd perhaps most challenging鈥攈urdle is self-doubt and fear. 鈥淲hat do I fear more than anything right now? Returning to racing. I fear my own return to racing,鈥 she . Boone says聽her fear is twofold: she鈥檚 worried that every little ache or pain will turn into a major injury, and that she鈥檒l never be the athlete she once was.聽Cheadle says it鈥檚 only natural to be hyperaware of pain or soreness聽after an聽injury. 鈥淚t鈥檚 your body鈥檚 way of protecting itself,鈥 she says. That鈥檚 why it鈥檚 crucial to return to your sport gradually, giving yourself the time and space to be more conservative than you鈥檝e been in the past. Cheadle says it鈥檚 also useful to take note of aches and pains when they occur and then reflect on what ended up happening after the workout鈥攊n essence, proving to yourself that you鈥檒l be OK.
As for fears that you won鈥檛 be the same athlete you were before getting injured, they鈥檙e often聽accurate, because the truth is, you probably won鈥檛. Boone writes that her friend told her to 鈥渟top trying to 鈥榞et back鈥 to the athlete you once were. You aren鈥檛 going to鈥攊t shouldn鈥檛 be the goal. And you will drive yourself nuts in the process.鈥 Cheadle agrees, and says that it鈥檚 liberating to release oneself from the past and focus on what lies ahead. 鈥淲e can let the past inform our future, but clinging to an idea of returning to an old self only limits what we could be,鈥 writes Boone. 鈥淥ur goal should never be to return to the athletes that we once were. It should be to chart a new course. To build a new identity. To define our own terms.鈥